There’s a version of you the world calls strong, but she’s not the real you.

She’s the version you built when fear, disappointment, and abandonment made you believe you had to perform to be chosen, stay in control to stay safe, and look strong to be worthy.

These fear-based agreements shaped your identity.

They built the “strong woman” mask you wear today.

And they are the reason you keep repeating cycles you’re tired of living through.

In this teaching, we expose the truth:

• why you cling to chaos even while praying for clarity

• how self-sabotage is rooted in “I don’t deserve real love”

• the agreements that keep you overgiving, overworking, and overstaying

• how pride and image hide the parts of you that feel unworthy

• how survival scripts keep you small, afraid, and double minded

• how to break the lies you made peace with for years

If you’re done performing strength and ready to confront the lie that built your identity, start here.

And if you want help uncovering the lies you’ve been repeating for years, go to PastorAmber.com and download "It Was a Lie".

It will help you expose the beliefs that shaped your false identity so you can finally rebuild from truth.

Life doesn’t just happen...it happens because of you. In this episode, Amber guides you through a 10-year audit so you can stop living reactively and start building legacy on purpose. From generational inheritance (spiritual, emotional, financial) to reverse-engineering your vision into daily routines, you’ll learn how to design the next decade with discipline, faith, and emotional endurance.

You’ll hear Amber share her own journey. Raising Kaiden, moving to Atlanta, choosing boundaries and truth. And why “vision doesn’t fail… people quit.” If you’re ready to trade numb survival for intentional strategy, this is your blueprint.

You’ll learn:

• Reactive vs proactive living: design or default

• The legacy lens: inheritance beyond money (wisdom, wholeness, stewardship)

• The 10-Year Audit: lessons, patterns, people, and non-negotiables

• Reverse-engineering: decade → year → quarter → month → daily habits

• Character over circumstance: bending without breaking

• Emotional endurance: why transformation hurts and how to keep going

Letting go isn’t about not caring anymore. It’s about choosing peace over patterns.

In this powerful episode of Girl & Her Bible, Amber digs deep into what it really means to release someone you still love. When your heart still remembers, but your spirit knows it’s time to move on.

You’ll learn:

• Why love and obedience sometimes can’t coexist

• How to recognize when familiarity is disguised as safety

• The truth about emotional attachments and childhood wounds

• How to rebuild self-trust after toxic or inconsistent relationships

• Why real healing requires structure, not just emotion

This is your permission to stop performing strength and start practicing surrender.

Take the next step:

✨ Text MOVE to 470-256-1199 to take the Validation Detox Quiz and get your free workbook.

✨ Ready to go deeper? Enroll in Good Girl Gone Numb. This course helps high-functioning women heal from performance-based love and emotional burnout.