What if you were asked to write your own eulogy — not once, but twice?

In this deeply honest episode of Suddenly Different, Leigh-Anne Sharland sits with Ashley Jo Janssen, author of Tides of Great Waves of Grace, to explore the moment that radically changed the trajectory of her life.

During addiction recovery, Ashley was asked to write a eulogy as if her life had ended due to substance abuse. Later, she was asked to write a second eulogy — one that reflected a long life shaped by sobriety, healing, forgiveness, and truth. Placing those two eulogies side by side revealed something undeniable: two possible endings, and one powerful choice.

In this conversation, Leigh-Anne and Ashley explore:

• How trauma and unresolved grief shape coping mechanisms

• Why self-forgiveness is one of the hardest and most essential parts of recovery

• The difference between surviving and truly living

• The role of family, faith, and community support in healing

• Why sobriety is not just about abstaining, but relearning how to feel

• And how choosing a little “razzle dazzle” — joy, presence, and intention — can be an act of rebellion and hope

Before you listen, a gentle note: this episode includes references to addiction, grief, and recovery. Please take care and pause if it becomes heavy.

If you’ve ever felt caught between who you’ve been and who you could become, this episode is a reminder that the pen is still in your hand.

Because even after destruction, redemption is possible.
And even after the storm, life can be Suddenly Different.

For more information about Ashley Jo here are the links

website: https://www.thisisashleyjo.com/

book: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0FV134LCV/

Also available on Kindle Unlimited