What Then Say You?

Stop scrolling and take a breath. This is a straight, unvarnished call to men to trade excuses for obedience and status for the Spirit. We start with confession—cheating, selfishness, gaslighting—not to sensationalize failure, but to strip away the polished stories that keep us from true repentance. Then we revisit Genesis 3 and notice what many of us skipped: Adam was present, silent, and quick to blame. That same reflex shows up in our homes, our timelines, and our choices. If leadership looks like blame-shifting, it isn’t leadership. It’s abdication.

From there we turn to Galatians 5, where freedom is not a hall pass for the flesh but power to serve in love. We name the works of the flesh—lust, envy, anger, factionalism, self-ambition—and ask hard questions about how culture rewards them in men. Why do we celebrate trophies, titles, and platform while ignoring patience, humility, and self-control? Why do we spend elite effort on bodies and brands, then offer scraps to our souls? The Fruit of the Spirit becomes the true metric of manhood: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control.

We also face how women carry the heavier cost of male freedom without responsibility. Objectification, exploitation, and silence from men keep the cycle alive. Real leadership refuses the fruit, protects the vulnerable, and speaks truth when it costs. We challenge the obsession with being known and offer a better aim: live as ambassadors who point to the King, not as kings demanding a crown. Let your legacy be faithfulness, not fame. Let anonymity feel like freedom because Jesus is the one people remember.

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