David and Tracy Sellers explore the critical difference between having a war in your marriage versus waging war for your marriage, illuminating how couples can transition from self-focused conflicts to becoming allies against sin.

• The smallest disagreements like toothpaste squeezing and thermostat settings reveal our tendency to war in marriage through selfishness
• True repentance goes beyond feeling convicted or sorry—it requires complete transformation of mind, heart, and actions
• Marriage is a divine "mystery" designed to display Christ's relationship with the church to the watching world
• Forgiveness starts with belief and decision, not emotion—emotions follow as the result of the forgiveness process
• Our spouse's enemy is Satan, not us—we are their God-appointed ally in the spiritual battle
• Fighting for your marriage requires speaking truth with love, even when it causes temporary discomfort
• The purpose of marriage transcends personal happiness to showcase God's redemptive love

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