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Friend or Foe? The Truth About Toxic Friendships

Friend or Foe? The Truth About Toxic Friendships

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Ever had a friend who felt more like an emotional vampire? One day you wake up and realize you haven’t thought about them since you cut them off—and your life got lighter. In this episode, T and Q drop the kid gloves and break down the hard truths about toxic friendships: the red flags, the excuses we make to stay, and when to walk away (or set that bridge on fire).

From guilt-tripping and backhanded compliments to friends who leave you drained after every hangout, we’re sharing real stories, ruthless advice, and the questions to ask yourself (*"Do they add joy or just drama?"*). Plus: listener confessions, when to ghost vs. have "the talk," and why "we’ve been friends for years" is a trash reason to tolerate disrespect.

Spoiler: If you’re mad while listening… you might be the toxic one.

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### Key Discussion Points:

🔥 Cold Open: T’s confession about the friend they forgot existed—and why that’s a GOOD thing.

🚩 Toxic Traits: Manipulation, jealousy, emotional blackmail, and the "flawed" vs. toxic friend line.

💀 Why We Stay: "But they’re my kid’s godparent!" and other lies we tell ourselves.

✂️ Cutting the Cord: How to set boundaries, ghost guilt-free, or have the awkward breakup talk.

🎤 Listener Stories: The friend who ditched them at the club twice (and why they’re still debating the friendship).

Subscribe now—and tag that one friend who needs to hear this (or the one who’ll side-eye you for it).

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### Bonus Teaser:

"If your phone lights up with their name and your first thought is ‘Ugh, what now?’—that’s not a friend, that’s a foe."

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