• One Family, Two Losses, and a Voice That Went On
    Dec 18 2025

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    A century-old trade journal shouldn’t be the most gripping thing you’ll hear about this week, but here we are: a 1915 issue of The American Lumberman unlocks the intertwined stories of Chicago’s Czech community in the aftermath of the Eastland disaster. We trace a death notice—Julia Kolar—through a maze of addresses, parish ties, and workplace notes. We then follow the thread to meet another victim, Anna Molitor Kolar, and a survivor, Ellla Kolar, whose voice would carry from South Millard Avenue to Milan.

    We walk through the exact research steps that make lost lives legible again: cross-referencing historian George Hilton’s Appendix D (Eastland: Legacy of the Titanic), combing the Eastland Memorial on Find a Grave, verifying Czech-language obituaries from Denní Hlasatel (Czech language newspaper), and balancing crowdsourced pages with original citations.

    As the puzzle comes together, it reveals the deeper structure of a neighborhood economy built on lumber yards, monthly home payments, and mutual aid. The result is part genealogy guide, part community history, and part recovery of cultural memory.

    Survivor Ella Kolar’s arc is a standout. A 1920 passport application shows her heading to Italy for vocal study; press clippings welcome her back for a River Forest reception; and a half-page notice in the Musical Courier confirms representation, bookings, and momentum. Critics in Boston hailed her as a “newly risen star,” and her community claimed her with pride. While many records are accessible, there’s a gap in research, signaling that more work needs to be done.

    If you love family history, Chicago history, Czech-American heritage, or the craft of archival sleuthing, this story has tools and heart in equal measure.

    Resources:

    • Kolar images and obituaries, 1915-07-27 TUE DENNÍ HLASATEL, Find a Grave
    • Anna Molitor Kolar obit 1915-07-27 TUE DENNÍ HLASATEL and Find a grave
    • American Lumberman (1915) and Musical Courier issues on Ella Kolar — via HathiTrust/Google Books.
    • Kolar family records — FamilySearch.org
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  • The River Remained in Her Bones: A Recovered Eastland Story
    Dec 11 2025

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    The River Remained in Her Bones: A Recovered Eastland Story

    A single line in a 1922 obituary can change the shape of history. We follow that thread to Chrissie McNeal Lauritzen, who survived the SS Eastland capsizing by clinging to the overturned hull, “was never well since,” and died seven years later from complications tied directly to that morning on the Chicago River. This isn’t just a moving story; it’s documented evidence that challenges the fixed perception of the Eastland death toll and reveals how disasters reverberate through families, records, and time.

    We explore the documentation: a death notice from a Rockford newspaper, filled with names and places, reflecting the family connections that supported those words on the page. We also examine the genealogical methods that transform a single paragraph into a comprehensive family network.

    Along the way, we meet Chrissie’s husband, Charles, through a 1917 passport application that holds a rare photo and a remarkable corporate letter from International Harvester. Those pages pull us inside wartime bureaucracy, frequent overseas travel, and how companies vouched for employees navigating citizenship questions and tightened State Department scrutiny during World War I. The documents don’t just fill gaps; they give texture to a home life shaped by illness, work abroad, and a daughter growing up in the long wake of 1915.

    The takeaway is clear and urgent: numbers that become legend need revisiting, and primary sources—obituaries, passport files, small-town columns—can restore lives to public memory. We show how to read these records, why women’s names and maiden names are crucial for genealogical accuracy, and what it means to honor those whose suffering extended beyond the day of the disaster. Learn how a forgotten death notice rewrites the Eastland narrative and what it takes to update the historical record with care, clarity--and evidence.

    Resource:

    “Mrs. Chrissie Lauritzen Dies of Complications.” Rockford Morning Star (Rockford, IL), April 8, 1922.

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  • A Hero at the Porthole: The Rabe Family’s Story
    Dec 4 2025

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    A forgotten headline. A crowded dock. A father who turns back to a sinking ship and pulls a family friend through a porthole. In this episode, we follow the Rabe family—Fred, Delia, Grace, and Kenneth—from a terrifying morning on the Chicago River into the decades that followed, when work, service, and community stitched their lives into something livable again. We open the archive, and listen as Grace and Kenneth share their memories of that day, 84 years later.

    Grace becomes a skilled comptometer operator at Western Electric, part of a large, highly trained cohort of women whose precision work kept the company running long before electronics took over. Kenneth rises through the company and never boards a pleasure boat without remembering the river. Fred advances to department manager, yet even after a 1999 article documented his rescue of family friend Anna Johnson, the act was never acknowledged. It’s another example of how an Eastland story can surface clearly in the record yet fade again, even when it should have been carried forward. Their obituaries turn out to be maps—Telephone Pioneers chapters, Eastern Star ties, addresses that trace moves across neighborhoods and seasons of service. Those details show how survivors rebuilt meaning through hands-on volunteer work, fraternal lodges, and a workplace culture that blended pride with mutual aid.

    Resources:

    • Northlake Herald-Journal (IL), December 1, 1999 — “Eastland Disaster All But Forgotten,” by Jennifer Giustino.
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    32 mins
  • Fissures in the Archive: Behind the Curtain of the Eastland Disaster
    Nov 27 2025

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    Some histories don’t fracture because records vanished; they fracture because we stopped asking questions. In this episode, we look at the Eastland Disaster through a different lens — not just what happened in 1915, but how its story has been curated, simplified, and sometimes commercialized, and how we can repair and restore it with evidence.

    I share what two years of deep research (and new academic work) revealed: there’s no agreed standard for who qualifies as an Eastland victim, and no peer-reviewed, source-cited list — even though a mid-1990s tally has often been treated as final.

    We walk through four patterns shaping public understanding: “empty frames” where names exist without biographies; vanishing attribution that severs data from sources; forgotten lives hiding in plain sight across court files, newspapers, and community databases; and the numbers game that turned a best-guess death toll into marketing copy.

    Along the way, we spotlight crowdsourced heroes—Find a Grave volunteers, family historians, and independent sleuths—bloggers and podcasters—whose careful work often surpasses certain institutional sites, precisely because they cite, correct, and keep looking.

    This is also a story about ethics and memory. We talk about why provenance matters, how to handle uncertain data without erasing it, and what it means to protect human stories from becoming slogans. From locating omitted individuals like Thomas Marren (excluded from the initial tally of victims) to resurfacing accounts tied to future Admiral Hyman Rickover, the method is consistent: follow the evidence, show your work, and leave a trail others can test. I also share progress on restoring the defunct Eastland Memorial Society website from the Wayback Machine, turning a lost archive into a living resource for researchers, descendants, and the simply curious. If you care about accurate history, communal stewardship, and honoring the people behind the numbers, this conversation offers tools and a path forward.

    Resources:

    Palmer, Ada. Inventing the Renaissance: The Rise of Cultural Movements and the Myth of the Middle Ages. Princeton University Press, 2023. Although focused on the Renaissance, Palmer’s exploration of how later generations reinterpret and reshape earlier eras offers a striking parallel to the historiography of the Eastland Disaster.

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  • Capsized. Kicked. Survived.
    Nov 20 2025

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    A photographer’s byline led me straight into another long-overlooked Eastland story — the 1965 Chicago Tribune interview with survivor Anna Meinert, one of the many accounts from this event that were well documented but seldom researched and carried forward.

    Anna’s memories bring the morning of July 24, 1915 into sharp, human focus.

    Fifty years later she could still see it all: water seeping from portholes, the sudden lurch, the scrap of canvas above a window, a stranger’s boot kicking her away, and the two other strangers whose hands pulled her to safety. Her friends never made it off the ship. That contrast — a precise memory set against an incomprehensible toll — reframes the Eastland Disaster that claimed more than 800 lives.

    From there, we widen the lens. Anna’s account intersects with the larger story: ballast decisions, the court ruling that declared the Eastland “seaworthy,” and the ship’s second life as a Navy training vessel on the Great Lakes before being scrapped after World War II.

    Then the trail moves into the realm of records. Through baptismal entries, census pages, and obituary lines, we confirm that she was born Alma Augusta Johanna Meinert to Prussian immigrants, married a Grimmer, raised a daughter, and later settled in Baton Rouge. Her obituary makes no mention of the disaster — a reminder of how easily family memory can disconnect from the events that shaped it.

    And this entire journey is only possible because of the Eastland Memorial Society, whose meticulous early work created a template for how history should be preserved: clearly, respectfully, and without turning real lives into marketing material. Though the organization is gone, its archived website on the Wayback Machine continues to guide research like this — proof that good historical work keeps paying forward.

    That’s the lesson in Anna’s story: when we connect photographs, survivor interviews, and genealogy, we return people to history and history to families.

    Take a moment to get to know Anna Meinert Grimmer. She’s been waiting a long time.

    Resources:

    Fitzpatrick, Thomas. “Horror of Eastland Haunts Memory of Survivor.” Chicago Tribune, July 11, 1965.

    Lane, Russell. “812 Died Half Century Ago: Suddenly the Boat Lurched.” Jacksonville Courier (Jacksonville, Illinois), July 23, 1965.

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  • The Rosetta Stone of the Eastland Disaster
    Nov 13 2025

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    Tracing the Eastland story back to the people who first preserved it online.

    This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on how, in the late 1990s, the Eastland Disaster story was rediscovered, shaped, reshaped, and carried onto the early Internet (courtesy of the Eastland Memorial Society). But when that original website vanished, some of its content — including family-written stories and volunteer research — resurfaced in later retellings without the names of the people who first contributed them.

    In other words, the attribution was MIA.

    And I’ll share how the record can be rebuilt using clear sources, solid attribution, and a commitment to course-correction whenever new evidence turns up — those moments where the archive gently reminds you, “There’s more to the story.”

    The guideposts are stubbornly simple:

    • Cite your sources
    • Credit those who did the work
    • Welcome contradiction.
    • Keep the file open for new research — even if it means letting go of a cherished assumption (or two!).

    In this episode, I spotlight the Eastland Memorial Society — the under-credited early web project that built timelines, tracked permissions, preserved photographs, saved media coverage, and offered essential context back when the internet was barely out of diapers. Thanks to the Internet Archive’s Wayback Machine, those pages now act as a genuine research Rosetta Stone.

    Resources:

    • The Eastland Disaster (1999). Documentary featuring members of the Eastland Memorial Society and historian George Hilton. Digitized by the Internet Archive.
    • Eastland Memorial Society, “News,” archived Oct. 20, 2000, via the Internet Archive Wayback Machine.
    • Hilton, George Woodman. Eastland: Legacy of the Titanic. Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press, 1995.
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  • She Stayed on the Line: From the Eastland Disaster to the Front Lines of France
    Nov 6 2025

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    Sirens, floodwater, shattering glass, and a calm voice saying, “Just a moment, please.” We revisit the women who turned raw noise into order—telephone operators whose steady hands and quick minds kept cities connected and, in wartime, helped save lives on the front lines.

    We start in Chicago with the Eastland disaster and widen the lens to the “Hello Girls,” the Signal Corps Female Telephone Operators Unit. These bilingual women carried commands across the trenches, cut confusion to seconds, and worked under fire in wooden barracks —yet they weren’t officially recognized as veterans until 1977 thanks to President Jimmy Carter. Along the way, we read from the 1920 Green Book magazine feature that captured the role’s grit and grace:

    • a chief operator swept away in a New Mexico flood after clearing her crew,
    • a Chicago operator who kept cool as glass rained down after a bombing, and
    • Texas teams who reported to flooded exchanges in bathing suits because the calls couldn’t wait.

    We also talk ethics and craft: The operator who ran the Peace Conference switchboard and never “listened in,” is a reminder that power over the line demands restraint. Inside smaller exchanges, chiefs balanced training, staffing, reports, and the daily diplomacy of customer tempers. And we honor one whose skill modernized boards during the 1893 World’s Fair and whose name graced a rest home for operators.

    This is a story about communication as a social contract. Before automation, the network had a heartbeat, and it belonged to women who treated urgency with poise and turned chaos into connection. If the history of technology often centers machines, these voices remind us that trust is the first infrastructure.

    Resources:

    • The Green Book Magazine (Nov. 1920)
    • Smithsonian audio: Telephone Operators
    • A Switchboard Operator and a Nurse Walk Into a Shipwreck
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  • The Afterlife of a Story
    Oct 30 2025

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    What happens when the storyteller is gone—but the story keeps rewriting itself?

    A single family biography can carry the weight of a neighborhood’s memory. We open the archives on a 20-year-old Western Electric employee who boarded the Eastland with her fiancé in 1915—and trace how her story, first written by a family member, nearly disappeared under paraphrase and missing attribution.

    What begins as a personal account of loss becomes a blueprint for preserving authorship, provenance, and trust across the fragile web.

    What began as a family story became a case study in restoring authorship and digital integrity.

    We walk through the dynamic immigrant life of Cicero, the morning the Eastland rolled into the Chicago River, and the sibling who arrived just as the ship capsized.

    Alongside those details, we share how we traced the original 1999 article, found the author’s later blog posts, and mapped the path of unattributed copies that flattened key context.

    If you love genealogy, public history, or deep research, this episode offers a practical toolkit:

    •Time-stamped archiving with the Wayback Machine and Archive.Today

    •Side-by-side document comparison

    •A clear-eyed approach to AI that favors verification over automation

    We close by restoring the story—and the storyteller’s name—to its rightful place.

    Recognizing the author isn’t optional—it’s about respecting ownership, upholding ethics, and protecting the record for those who follow.

    Resources:

    • Family History by Colleen (Colleen Ringel's blog)
    • Chronicle Makers (Denyse Allen)
    • Genealogy Gems (Lisa Louise Cooke)
    • The Familly History AI Show (Make Thompson & Steve Little)
    • Archive.today
    • Internet Archive Wayback Machine
    • View Gabriella Schlentz’s FamilySearch profile here.
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    35 mins