In this episode, we pull back the curtain on modern dating and unpack the theories shaping today’s romantic landscape. From proximity crushes and delayed disappointment to the 72-hour rule and "plans are the new foreplay," Joe and Hannah break down the traps, myths, and hard truths of dating apps and digital romance. Why does texting build false intimacy? Are we addicted to the fantasy of perfection? And how does taking charge become the ultimate sign of emotional maturity? Tune in for raw takes, real stories, and honest conversation about what it takes to build true connection in today's swipe-heavy world.00:00 - Introduction: Breaking Down Dating Theories00:30 - Proximity Crush Theory02:00 - Real-Life Example: The F45 Instructor Story05:00 - The Impact of Fantasy & False Intimacy07:00 - Delayed Disappointment & Table Theory09:00 - The Dangers of Endless Texting11:00 - Fear of Rejection & Addiction to Perfection14:00 - Why True Intimacy Requires Vulnerability15:00 - The 72-Hour Rule Debate20:00 - How Many People Should You Date at Once?25:00 - Intentionality vs. Oversaturation26:30 - Plans Are the New Foreplay: Why Effort Is Sexy29:00 - Emotional Maturity & Taking the Lead30:00 - Closing Thoughts & TakeawaysNew episodes every Monday. Subscribe for more real talk on dating, relationships, and everything in between.If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me!Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.coInstagram: / firstroundsonmeTikTok: / firstroundsonmeappJoe:https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah :https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Exclusive Offer - Transform Your Dating Life Today!Say goodbye to swiping left and hello to real connections! First Round’s On Me helps you skip the awkward stages and find meaningful matches. Get a FREE month of FROM’s Terracotta premium subscription—all you have to do is use our code DATING!

On this episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with the brilliant and brutally honest content creator Greyson Hoelzel. From engineering by day to viral TikToks by night, Grayson opens up about building a following, the trials of modern dating, and why he has beef with Disney adults. Expect dating hot takes, a round of “How Well Do You Know Yourself?”, and raw insight into navigating life, love, and internet fame—all with a side of humor.🎧 New episodes every Monday. Subscribe for more real talk on dating, relationships, and everything in between.Chapters:00:00 – Cold open: “Disney adults shouldn't have kids?”00:20 – Intro: Meet Greyson01:08 – Playing it cool: Managing expectations02:13 – Who is Greyson?03:27 – Dating in Idaho (and the ring-check habit)05:07 – Fry sauce and East Coast culture shock05:45 – Becoming a content creator07:02 – Viral moment: The micropenis video08:12 – Balancing engineering and content08:59 – Creative process & idea generation10:19 – TikTok nerves and staying authentic11:12 – Editing philosophy: Keep it raw12:34 – Being yourself on camera13:16 – Advice for new creators14:38 – Game: “How Well Do You Know Yourself?”22:29 – Dating status & moving to NYC24:19 – The invisible wall in relationships26:31 – Fix vs. evolve: A therapy conversation28:30 – Red flags that are... hot?30:05 – Threesomes, boundaries, and bisexuality31:44 – Dating rule to retire: The 3-month myth33:21 – Dating apps, options fatigue, and emotional elbow grease36:15 – The paradox of too many choices38:05 – Should you be able to review your date?40:40 – Who should pay on the first date?43:12 – Random green flag: Passionate rants44:06 – Dating hill to die on: Anti-Disney adults47:27 – Final green flag: Genuine kindness48:57 – Game: “What Would Greyson Do?”If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Exclusive Offer - Transform Your Dating Life Today! Say goodbye to swiping left and hello to real connections! First Round’s On Me helps you skip the awkward stages and find meaningful matches. Get a FREE month of FROM’s Terracotta premium subscription—all you have to do is use our code DATING!Promo Code - DATINGLink - https://from.onelink.me/LQvW/from

Reality TV star and model Fernanda Flores joins us to talk love, heartbreak, and life in the “hot spotlight.” From her journey on 90 Day Fiancé to navigating dating as a public figure, Fernanda opens up about vulnerability, red flags, green flags, and finding real connection in a fast-food dating culture. She also shares insights into the modeling industry, the pressure to be perfect, and the kind of partner she's searching for now. This one's for anyone who's ever loved hard, lost, and decided to try again—with boundaries and a soft heart.🎧 New episodes every Monday. Subscribe for more real talk on dating, relationships, and everything in between.Chapters:00:00 – Intro & Fernanda joins the show00:30 – Life after 90 Day Fiancé01:20 – Navigating real love on reality TV03:15 – The truth behind the K-1 visa experience04:45 – Culture shock, age gaps, and on-camera pressure06:05 – What producers didn’t show06:50 – Building a post-show community08:00 – Modeling myths & mental health10:00 – Self-image, pressure, and burnout11:30 – How being in the spotlight affects dating12:45 – Who Fernanda sees herself ending up with13:50 – How she approaches first dates now15:00 – Dating someone who supports your spotlight16:15 – The difference between content and real life17:30 – Keeping your heart soft, boundaries strong19:00 – Fast-food love & commitment issues20:20 – Dating is like the gym: put in the work21:20 – Biggest dating green flag22:10 – Quickfire dating questions23:20 – Who pays on the first date?25:00 – Is cheating forgivable?28:00 – Biggest green flags in a partner29:30 – Fernanda’s ideal date in NYC30:30 – 24-hour chat questions before a first date31:30 – Dating with intention & closing thoughtsIf you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Exclusive Offer - Transform Your Dating Life Today! Say goodbye to swiping left and hello to real connections! First Round’s On Me helps you skip the awkward stages and find meaningful matches. Get a FREE month of FROM’s Terracotta premium subscription—all you have to do is use our code DATING!Promo Code - DATINGLink - https://from.onelink.me/LQvW/from