What if the reason love feels so hard has nothing to do with effort, timing, or “doing the work” and everything to do with how high-achieving women are conditioned to relate to themselves?

In this episode of Possibilities with Monique de Maio, Monique sits down with Lynda Williams, transformational coach, entrepreneur, and host of the PS I Love Me podcast, for a deeply honest conversation about love, self-acceptance, and why success in life does not automatically translate to fulfillment in relationships.

Lynda shares her journey from growing up in a small village in England to building a successful PR agency, and ultimately stepping into her purpose as a coach helping women reconnect with their intuition, worth, and capacity to receive love. Together, Monique and Lynda unpack why many high-achieving women struggle with intimacy, how masculine overdrive impacts relationships, and why mass-market dating advice often misses the mark for ambitious women.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why love is received, not achieved

• How high-performing women disconnect from self-acceptance without realizing it

• The balance between masculine drive and feminine intuition

• Why success does not mean you must choose between independence and partnership

• How self-trust changes the way we show up in love and life

• Why wanting love does not make you weak or “behind”
  

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction to Linda Williams and Her Journey

02:46 - From PR to Coaching: A Transformational Journey

05:44 - The Evolve Woman Program: Empowering High Achieving Women

08:22 - Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

11:08 - The Importance of Self-Worth in Relationships

14:03 - Intuition and Decision Making: Trusting Your Gut

16:56 - The Connection Between Well-Being and Empowerment

21:08 - Reconnecting with Our Bodies

23:18 - The Power Within: Self-Healing and Authenticity

25:42 - Navigating Modern Dating: Authenticity vs. External Validation

28:26 - Time Management and Prioritizing Love

31:15 - The Importance of Love and Connection

33:55- Finding Genuine Connections: Values and Standards

36:04 - Living with Purpose: Following Your Passion

37:14 - Learning from Past Experiences

39:30 - Advice for the Future: Staying True to Yourself

This conversation is grounding, affirming, and necessary for women who want meaningful connection without abandoning themselves in the process.

ABOUT OUR GUEST:

Lynda Williams is a transformational coach, entrepreneur, and host of the PS I Love Me podcast. She is passionate about helping high-achieving women reconnect with their self-worth, intuition, and capacity to receive love without abandoning who they are.

Originally from a small village in England, Lynda built a successful career in public relations before stepping into her true calling as a coach and guide for women navigating love, identity, and self-acceptance. Her work centers on breaking old patterns, balancing masculine drive with feminine intuition, and redefining what fulfillment looks like beyond external success.

Through her coaching and podcast, Lynda helps women stop performing, start trusting themselves, and open up to deeper connections in both life and relationships.

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