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Find The Outside

Find The Outside

By: Tim Merry & Tuesday Rivera
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A lively, off-the-cuff conversation hosted by Tuesday Rivera and Tim Merry on large-scale systems change and equity. Together, Tim and Tuesday are THE OUTSIDE - systems change and equity facilitators who bring the fresh air necessary to organize movements, organizations, and collaborators forward for progress, surfacing new mindsets for greater participation and shared impact.


In this podcast, we’ll share our greatest light-bulb moments as we advance our own understanding of this work. We’re doing it live, and inviting you in. Welcome! As Tim says in the first episode: reflection is too important to leave to chance. These conversations give us (and you!) a chance to slow down, catch our breath, and see our space and our work more clearly.

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Tim Merry & Tuesday Rivera
Episodes
  • 8.06: Outside Conversations with Chris Keevil - The Role of Adventure in Personal Growth

    8.06: Outside Conversations with Chris Keevil - The Role of Adventure in Personal Growth
    Jan 13 2026
    On today’s episode, Tim and Tuesday welcome long-time friend Chris Keevil where they explore the themes of personal growth, leadership, and the complexities of masculinity. They discuss the importance of adventure in shaping identity, the role of sports in personal development, and the necessity of kindness in navigating success. They also delve into the challenges of modern masculinity, the significance of reflection, and the impact of personal choices on relationships. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the importance of optimism and resilience in facing the uncertainties of the future. Tune in!

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    54 mins
  • 8.05: Masculinity, Meaning, and the Mess We're In

    8.05: Masculinity, Meaning, and the Mess We're In
    Dec 2 2025

    In this episode, Tim and Tuesday dig into masculinity, leadership, and the cultural fallout of bullying and toxic masculine norms. They unpack why authoritarian leadership models are gaining traction, how fear and division shape today’s politics, and why our individual choices in community engagement matter more than ever.


    The conversation moves through political discontent, the citizen–state relationship, and what people look for in leaders during times of crisis. Tim and Tuesday also examine the rise of the Manosphere, the search for purpose and belonging among young men, and how those needs can fuel harmful identities.


    They close with lessons from history and the power of reconnecting with ancestral stories as a guide through modern challenges.


    Resources:

    • Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
    • Website: www.findtheoutside.com
    • Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
    • Connect with us at hello@findtheoutside.com
    • Watch Tuesday’s podcast with her husband, Gibrán Rivera: Episode 1.4 - “Reclaiming The Divine Masculine”
    • BBC Documentary: “Men of the Manosphere,” by James Blake
    • BBC Documentary: “Empire with David Olusoga"
    • Song: “Thatcher Fucked The Kids,
    • ” by Frank Turner
    • Check out The Outside’s online course: Berkana Two Loops of Systems Change
    • Tim & Tuesday also offer keynotes on the Two Loops - contact us to learn more!
    • Dr. Martin Shaw - “What gets exiled, comes back hostile.”

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    37 mins
  • 8.02: Navigating Time: The Journey of the Human Experience

    8.02: Navigating Time: The Journey of the Human Experience
    Oct 21 2025

    In this soul-stirring episode, Tim and Tuesday dive deep into the rhythms of change, the mystery of time, and the power of presence. Together, they unpack the tension between reflecting on the past and embracing the unknown ahead. With honest stories and thoughtful insights, they explore emotional maturity, the evolving role of men’s work, and what it means to build truly supportive spaces. Tune in for a conversation that invites you to slow down, stay curious, and discover moments of joy—even in the chaos.


    Resources

    • Learn more about, and follow, The Outside by visiting and liking all of our channels:
    • Website: www.findtheoutside.com
    • Facebook & Instagram: @findtheoutside
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/findtheoutside
    • Connect with us at hello@findtheoutside.com


    • “Tyranny of the finish line” - Chris Corrigan
    • 6.02: Outside Conversations with Chris Corrigan + Caitlin Frost - On the reciprocity of community
    • 6.09: Outside Conversations with Brett Kencairn - On the promise of the fourth wave
    • Upcoming podcast guest, Dennis Adams, LOVE Nova Scotia
    • “Seven Rules of Life”
    • "Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” - Howard Thurman


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    38 mins
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