There’s a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel…

That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much.

You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you.

Easily, naturally, because he wants to.

Because he wants you.

And when you still don’t have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave.

Most women think that the solution to this is finding the right man.

And so they keep dating.

Keep hoping.

But nothing changes.

This episode explains exactly why and what to do to finally meet your man, the man who will choose you every damn day for the rest of his life.

In this episode you’ll see:

• Where this desire, the ache to be chosen actually comes from
• Why this ache feels so intense (and becomes so hard to shake)
• Why trying to find the right man will never fix this feeling
• What it really means to “love yourself” or “choose yourself”
• How close you actually are to finally meeting your man

Because here’s the thing that you’ll rarely hear explained so clearly:

That ache to be chosen that you feel?

It’s not coming from being single or because you don’t yet have your man.

And until you understand where it comes from, you’ll keep grasping for the wrong solution.

🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now!

💖 Episodes to listen to next:

Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1

Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2

READY FOR LOVE?!?!?

Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:

Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

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Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love.

Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work).

It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too.

Remember: Love follows love.

Love always,

Em xx

READY FOR LOVE?!?!?

Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:

Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

CONNECT WITH ME:

Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.

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There are women who find love easily…

And then there’s your experience 💔

✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice.

✔️ You’re swiping on apps.

✔️ In your “feminine energy”.

✔️ Playing hard to get.

✔️ Trying really hard.

And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend.

This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will.

Because the reason she gets the guy and you’re perpetually single??

It’s NOT because she’s prettier.

Better at dating.

Someone men just like more.

You’re just unlucky.

Or destined to be single forever.

There’s something happening beneath the surface.

Something you can’t see…

But that changes EVERYTHING!

Inside this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why some women seem to attract incredible men and loving relationships without trying
• Why doing “all the right things” in dating can actually keep you stuck
• The real difference between women who find love easily and those who don’t
• What really determines your dating experience (without you realising it)
• The simple steps to become the woman love happens easily for.

This episode will help you understand how love really happens, so it can finally happen for you too.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

• “Why do I have to always be the single friend?”
• “What am I missing?”
• “Why is love so easy for everyone else and so hard for me?”

Hit play on this episode now!

You'll get the answers you've been looking for.

💖 Episodes to listen to next:

Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1

Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2

READY FOR LOVE?!?!?

Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:

Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast

CONNECT WITH ME:

Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily

If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too.

And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!