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Femme On The Spectrum - Autism- High functioning female neurodivergent minds

Femme On The Spectrum - Autism- High functioning female neurodivergent minds

By: Elizabeth Bucher
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 Welcome to Femme on the Spectrum, where we dive deep into the lived experiences of adult autism while tackling the pressing issues of our time. Hosted by Elizabeth, a proud autistic advocate and mother, this podcast covers everything from navigating politics and motherhood to exploring feminism and breaking stereotypes. Join us for candid, unfiltered conversations that highlight the unique challenges and triumphs of living life on the spectrum. Whether you're neurodivergent or simply curious, this is a space for real talk and fresh perspectives.Elizabeth Bucher Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • The Scapegoat Protocol: A 'Liar, Liar' Masterclass

    The Scapegoat Protocol: A 'Liar, Liar' Masterclass
    Nov 16 2025
    In the podcast episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth explores the challenges neurodivergent women face in dysfunctional family dynamics, particularly those on the autism spectrum. She discusses why these women are often cast as the family scapegoats and how their characteristics, such as pattern recognition, a heightened sense of justice, and direct communication, threaten such systems. Elizabeth also discusses the 'Liar' Protocol, which includes gaslighting and DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactics, often used to suppress the valid concerns of autistic individuals and paint them as the instigator of the conflict. Moreover, Elizabeth stresses the importance of setting boundaries and differentiates it from holding a grudge, emphasizing that boundaries are necessary for self-protection. The episode ends with reflection questions for the audience and a strong affirmation of their experiences and the strength in their distinct characteristics.
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    22 mins
  • The "Vile Human" & The Family Enforcer

    The "Vile Human" & The Family Enforcer
    Nov 16 2025
    In this intense episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth explores the challenging dynamics of unmasking her neurodivergence within her family and the torrents of criticism it incites, particularly from her 'family enforcer,' Cousin Kimmy. Elizabeth highlights patterns in neurodivergent individuals' interactions with their families, their inherent need for truth-telling, and how these traits can be misconstrued as attacks against their families. The episode dissects the harmful messages they receive, their psychological implications, and the motivations behind them, like maintaining family loyalty and status quo. The episode emphasizes that such reactions can be an affirmation of the neurodivergent's discerning nature and are thus initial steps towards their truth. The show ends with a reflective discussion, encouraging listeners to understand that recognizing and affirming their truth is a superpower.
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    27 mins
  • The Aunt, The Apology, and The Professional Gaslight

    The Aunt, The Apology, and The Professional Gaslight
    Nov 9 2025
    The Femme on the Spectrum podcast, hosted by Elizabeth Bucher, provides a safe space where neurodivergent individuals, including those with autism and ADHD, can explore and celebrate their unique perspectives on life's significant issues. In this episode, they delve into the pivotal concepts of justice, truth, and discernment as experienced from a neurodivergent perspective. A listener's real-life dilemma involving her aunt serves as the springboard for a discussion on the clash between the autistic dedication to truth and societal expectations for peacekeeping at all costs. The episode underscores the significance of standing firm in one's truth even under pressure to conform, highlighting patterns of systemic mistreatment and the often misunderstood 'identified patient' dynamic. Additionally, the show explores the crucial role of personal discernment as a counter to gaslighting attempts and as a tool for self-preservation. Elizabeth extends this empowering discussion with engaging mic-drop moments, thought-provoking reflection questions, and a rallying call for listeners to keep embracing their neurodivergence.
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    24 mins
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