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Fem MD

Fem MD

By: Hippocratic Collective
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Where we talk about what it’s actually like to be a woman in medicine. Hosted by a facial plastic surgeon who’s not afraid to ask bold questions, this show dives into the messy, beautiful, complicated lives we all live: careers, kids, IVF, burnout, marriage, divorce, ambition, and all the expectations we’re supposed to meet. Nothing is off-limits. These are the conversations we’ve all had behind closed doors - now we’re having them out loud. Find more info about Fem, MD and other shows on the Hippocratic Collective at hippocratic-collective.comCopyright 2025 Hippocratic Collective Career Success Economics Hygiene & Healthy Living Physical Illness & Disease Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Don’t Delay What Brings You Joy: Finding the Silver Lining in Lung Cancer with Audrey Bellezza
    Dec 17 2025

    In this episode of Fem MD, Dr. Lauren Umstattd interviews author Audrey Bellezza, who shares how, at age 50—healthy, active, and a mom of two boys—she was blindsided by a diagnosis of stage IV ALK-positive lung cancer. Audrey recounts the shock, the agonizing period of unknowns, and how biomarker testing revealed a mutation-driven cancer.

    She explains her targeted therapy treatment, its difficult side effects, and how seeking specialists at Johns Hopkins introduced her to the possibility of a groundbreaking vaccine now in early clinical trials. Alongside her advocacy, Audrey has authored a Jane Austen trilogy and most recently released Anne of Avenue A, blending her love of literature with her mission to inspire hope.

    Audrey also founded Love4Lungs, a nonprofit dedicated to funding research, supporting patients, and raising awareness that lung cancer can affect anyone, regardless of age or lifestyle. She leaves listeners with a quote from her latest novel that now guides her life: “Don’t delay what brings you joy.”

    Host: Dr. Lauren Umstattd

    Connect with Lauren: @lauren_umstattd_md

    Guest: Audrey Bellezza

    Connect with Audrey: @audreybellezzawrites

    Love4Lungs: https://www.love4lungs.org/

    Anne of Avenue A: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Anne-of-Avenue-A/Audrey-Bellezza/For-the-Love-of-Austen/9781668097656

    Presented by: @HippocraticCollective

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    47 mins
  • Tourette's, TV & Embracing Your Weird with Chelsea White
    Dec 3 2025

    In this episode of Fem MD, Lauren sits down with Emmy-nominated producer Chelsea White — known for her work on Watch What Happens Live and The Drew Barrymore Show — for an honest, layered conversation about identity, neurodiversity, and the freedom that comes from embracing every part of who you are.

    Chelsea was diagnosed with Tourette syndrome at just three years old, a moment that shaped how she understood herself long before she had language for it. Growing up with Tourette’s and OCD meant navigating stigma, misunderstanding, and the pressure to hide the parts of herself that didn’t fit neatly into others’ expectations.

    Together, Lauren and Chelsea talk about:

    • What early diagnosis actually felt like from the inside

    • The misconceptions about Tourette’s and OCD that still persist

    • How Chelsea found her voice in the entertainment industry

    • Why mentorship matters — especially for young women

    • The moment she stopped trying to “pass as normal”

    • How embracing your quirks can become your superpower, not your liability

    This is a conversation about resilience, authenticity, and choosing to show up as your full self even in rooms that weren’t built with you in mind. Chelsea’s story is a reminder that your differences are not something to hide — they’re the very things that set you free.

    Host: Dr. Lauren Umstattd

    Connect with Lauren: @lauren_umstattd_md

    Guest: Chelsea White

    Connect with Chelsea: @thechelseawhite

    https://thechelseawhite.com/

    Presented by: @HippocraticCollective

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    47 mins
  • Don't Lose Yourself in IVF | Dr. Melyssa Hancock’s 3-Year IVF Odyssey | Fem, MD
    Nov 19 2025

    In this raw and unfiltered episode of Fem, MD, facial plastic surgeon Dr. Melyssa Hancock opens up about her 12-round, 3-year IVF journey—one that spanned multiple clinics, a cross-country move of frozen embryos, a complicated surrogacy process, canceled transfers, and more than $250,000 in out-of-pocket costs.

    We talk about:

    • Fertility preservation as a surgical trainee
    • Why she switched IVF clinics after two failed transfers
    • What it’s actually like to do daily injections, hormone surges, and constant ultrasounds while running a busy private practice
    • How IVF reshaped her marriage, her sense of identity, and her mental health
    • The moment she saw the faintest line on a pregnancy test after years of negatives
    • How hyperbaric oxygen therapy and NAD ended up part of her “Hail Mary” cycle
    • Nearly pursuing surrogacy — and why she ultimately carried her daughter
    • The emotional, physical, and financial toll on female physicians navigating fertility
    • Why we need to talk about infertility in medicine loudly and without shame

    Dr. Hancock also shares the birth story of her daughter, Olivia, and why the struggle made motherhood even more profound.

    This is one of the most intimate, vulnerable conversations we’ve had on Fem, MD — and a must-listen for anyone in medicine who’s ever wondered when (and whether) their personal life will catch up to their professional one.

    Host: Dr. Lauren Umstattd

    Connect with Lauren: @lauren_umstattd_md

    Guest: Melyssa Hancock, MD

    Connect with Melyssa: @drmelyssahancock

    https://drmelyssahancock.com/

    Presented by: @HippocraticCollective ​

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    55 mins
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