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Father Time w/ De'Meco & Blair

Father Time w/ De'Meco & Blair

By: De'Meco Deanes Blair Cutts
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  • Ep. 051 - The Burden of Fatherhood: Breaking Cycles & The "Utility Dad"
    Feb 5 2026

    "My presence is a presence." We’re kicking off a brand-new era of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair. We’re officially moving away from "Seasons" and into a continuous, fluid flow of conversation. No more breaks, just real talk, throughout the "Sacred Timeline" We start with Blair shaking De'Meco out of a self-sabotaging "pity party," reminding him that his presence is a presence. This is an honest look at the self-imposed expectations that haunt dads and how to give yourself grace when you’re "running on E."In this episode, we dive into:The "Utility Player" Mindset: Why every team doesn't need a Barry Bonds. Sometimes, being a great dad means playing second base today and right field tomorrow—being exactly what your family needs in the moment.Breaking the Cycle: A raw, visceral discussion on the "whoopings" of our past. We reflect on the "dragon" in the house and make the conscious choice to choose safety over fear.The Kevin Hart Reaction: Unpacking the silent burdens fathers carry so their children don’t have to.Therapy & Control: How Blair and De'Meco are using therapy to recognize patterns, drop the "boo-boo face," and simply "pick their chin up."The Magic of Moms: De'Meco gives flowers to his wife, Kate, and acknowledges the "manufactured joy" that moms work so hard to create.Fatherhood is a rock spinning in nothingness—it's finite, it's messy, and it’s beautiful. Whether you're navigating the "three-nager" stage or trying to be a better man than your father was, this episode is for you.Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of proud dad talk.Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!Presented by: Father Time MediaExecutively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsEdited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsTheme Song by EemsWYNK Seltzer + THC - https://drinkwynk.com/ - “FatherTimePod” for 20% off at checkoutFather Time Reacts - Diary Of A CEO featuring Kevin Harthttps://youtu.be/5sCGZAcXKWg?si=W9QulfBuJ9ryHVe8&t=5050#FatherTimePod #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime

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    42 mins
  • Ep. 050 - Marriage Is Hard: Balance, Therapy, and Breaking Cycles
    Feb 2 2026

    ❤️ Life Balance & The Hardest Job: Marriage | Father Time Holiday Special 2025 Happy Holidays! After our longest break ever, De’Meco and Blair are back in the chair (and ready for the eggnog!) for an emotional and honest catch-up. This isn't just a holiday special; it's a look under the hood of life, marriage, and personal growth.We peel back the curtain on why we took a much-needed break and how those famous "Father Time" concepts of balance and accountability played out in our own homes. Blair hilariously breaks down the difference between arguing and "militaristic monotone condescension," leading to a frank discussion about starting couples therapy—because being a professional husband is the hardest job you'll ever have!De'Meco shares his journey into personal therapy, comparing the process to being Jamie Tartt in Ted Lasso (minus the gorgeous hair), and how it’s helping him lighten the "baggage" to break generational cycles for his daughter. We talk about the true meaning of a safe space—it’s not just for friends passing the basketball (shoutout to The Brothers!), but for finding peace with the past.🎙️ The Future of Father Time & Why We're Running!We also talk shop: the podcast is evolving! To deliver the highest quality content and maintain life balance, we're shifting to twice-monthly episodes and expanding the vision for Father Time Media to include anyone with a father experience.And since we love a good challenge, we announce our running journeys!* De'Meco is on the hunt for the Chicago Marathon lottery spot, embracing the process of becoming a disciplined 26.2-mile finisher!* Blair is running the Eugene 5K for a fantastic cause: raising money for Girls on the Run to empower girls and non-binary youth. (Find the donation link below!)This episode is about growth, gratitude, and the enduring power of friendship. We truly appreciate you listening—you are the community that keeps us flying!Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of proud dad talk.Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!Presented by: Father Time MediaExecutively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsEdited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsTheme Song by EemsGirls On The Run - Greater Oregon - https://www.gotroregon.org/fundraiser/Blair-C-SoleMates2025-2026-29170WYNK Seltzer + THC - https://drinkwynk.com/ - “FatherTimePod” for 20% off at checkoutSUPLMNT - https://suplmnt.com/collections/bottles - “FatherTimePod” for 15% off at checkoutFather Time Reacts - Breaking Cycles - Landman #FatherTimePod #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime

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    48 mins
  • Ep. 25 - Navigating the Waters of Fatherhood: A Deep Dive
    Jan 30 2026

    Hey dads, get ready for a real heart-to-heart with De'Meco and Blair as we dive deep into the ups and downs of fatherhood. In this special guest-free episode, we're spilling the beans on everything from the emotional rollercoaster of toddlerhood to the overwhelming decisions that come with parenting.


    We're talking about being there for your kids, the impact of those fictional dads we all look up to, and the unique challenges and rewards of being a girl-dad. PERIOD.


    Join us as we reflect on the lessons learned from our own dads, the importance of having a supportive partner, and the lifelong journey of parenthood. This episode is filled with warmth, humor, and valuable insights that will make you nod your head and say, "Yep, been there." Don't miss this exciting episode to Season 3!


    Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!


    Presented by: Our Family Vibe Media & Honor Club Media

    Executively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair Cutts

    Edited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair Cutts


    #FatherTimePod #Season3 #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime

    SUPLMNT - https://suplmnt.com/collections/bottles - "FatherTimePod" for 15% off at checkout

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    1 hr and 37 mins
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