Do you struggle with envy? Wish you had someone else’s life, spouse, home, or summer schedule? You’re not alone—and Scripture speaks directly to that longing. In this episode, Rob and Amy Rienow unpack the often-overlooked 10th Commandment: "Do not covet."

Through honest confessions, biblical teaching, and cultural insights—from backyard envy to ancient wars over stolen love—they explore why coveting can quietly damage your heart, your marriage, and your parenting. Plus, discover how the comparison trap keeps families from experiencing true contentment and gratitude.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why coveting is a heart issue, not just a behavior

- How parents can model contentment and recognize subtle family dynamics of envy

- The spiritual and relational dangers of comparison in marriage

- Why unchecked desire erodes trust in God’s provision

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We wrap up our 10 Commandments series by seeking to discover biblical principles to find freedom from coveting. What’s the deeper purpose of God’s law, and how can your family walk in obedience out of love rather than duty? Join us next time.

It’s tempting to tell a lie—especially when it makes life easier, avoids conflict, or earns approval. But what happens when we allow small lies to become habits in our families? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deeper look at the ninth commandment: “You shall not bear false witness.”

They share personal stories of "white lies," explore how environments normalize deceit, and offer biblical encouragement for parenting kids who lie. From fake IDs to fudging a child’s age for a discount, this conversation uncovers how truth-telling is foundational to trust and love in the home.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why lying is often motivated by fear, shame, or the desire for approval
- How “small” lies can create lasting damage in relationships
- Parenting strategies to lovingly confront dishonesty without shame
- Why full confession—not partial—is the only way to rebuild trust
- How to keep communication open and be a “safe place” for truth

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Next week, we take a deeper look at the 10th commandment, “You shall not covet.” What does it mean to guard your heart in a world filled with comparison and craving? Join us as we explore how contentment leads to joy and freedom in family life.

Do not lie. It’s the ninth of the 10 Commandments—but how do we teach this principle to our children in a world where lying is often celebrated? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share biblical principles and even humorous stories about honesty, confession, and the battle for truth in our culture and in our homes.

We’ll unpack what it means to bear false witness, how even small acts of deceit impact our relationships, and why truth-telling is a spiritual battle rooted in the very nature of God. From playful games like “two truths and a lie” to microwave deception and missing candy, this conversation gets honest about lying—and how to raise a family that values truth.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why lying is more than just telling a falsehood—it’s about deceit, omission, and distortion

- How our culture normalizes and rewards dishonesty, and what to do about it as Christian parents

- The biblical roots of truth-telling and how it reflects the character of God

- Why Jesus calls Satan “the father of lies”—and how lies keep us captive

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Next week, we’ll continue our conversation on the Ninth Commandment and get practical. How do you deal with lying in your kids? How can you create a home where truth is expected, lived, and celebrated? Join us for Part 2 of “Do Not Lie.”