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More people are asking for alimony right now than ever before.

And it makes sense, based on:
Economic uncertainty.
Job instability.
Rising costs.
Financial dependence after divorce.

But here’s what you probably don't realize:
Just because you need alimony… doesn’t mean you’ll actually get it.

In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee breaks down one of the most misunderstood aspects of divorce: how alimony is actually decided and why strategy matters more than many most people think.

Tracey walks through five common alimony scenarios and explains why the law alone may not determine the outcome and how strategy becomes critical in these situations.

One of the most common scenarios covered is when a spouse suddenly claims to be “broke” transferring assets, reducing income, or hiding finances to avoid paying support. In these cases, proving financial history and uncovering hidden income becomes essential.

If you're asking for alimony or expecting to this episode will help you understand what actually matters and how to position your case strategically.

Timestamps:
00:00 Why Alimony Requests Are Rising
01:20 Courts vs Economic Stress
01:57 Strategy Over Statutes
02:29 Who Decides and Why They Fight
04:06 Get Help and Know Your State
06:33 Scenario 1 Fake Broke Spouse
07:30 Proving Hidden Income and Assets
09:07 Wrapping Up Next Steps

What You’ll Learn:

✅ Why more people are requesting alimony right now;
✅ Why economic hardship alone doesn’t guarantee alimony;
✅ The role strategy plays in alimony decisions;
✅ Why many spouses fight alimony requests;
✅ How hidden income and asset transfers affect alimony;
✅ When to seek financial or legal support.

Next Step
✅ Take the Diagnostic Assessment (recommended if you want clarity on what’s weakening your case positioning)
https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/page/strategic-case-diagnostic-assessment

✅ Book a 1-Hour Strategy Session
https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/store/products/one-hour-strategy-session-via-zoom

✅ Subscribe / Follow the podcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/4XLm4xy7cUfl4XDY06YDsU?si=3df261187b624c1a&nd=1&dlsi=789c9c8b30484539

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

862.800.7850

Season 3 Episode 14

Most people think hiring a lawyer means they can step back and let the professional handle everything… I meant to say EVERYTHING. But that’s not how strong cases are built.

In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee breaks down something rarely discussed, that is, the different types of clients lawyers work with and how your behavior as a client can directly impact how your case proceeds and the case outcome.

You may not realize it, but how you communicate, prepare, and collaborate with your lawyer can strengthen your case… or quietly weaken it.

Tracey walks through the five most common client types:

The “I’m Paying You” Client
The Emotional Reactor Client
The Half-In, Half-Out Client
The Informed but Unfocused Client
The Strategic Client

She explains why some clients frustrate lawyers, why others build stronger cases, and how becoming a more strategic client can improve your overall outcome.

If you're working with a lawyer, thinking about hiring one, or representing yourself, this episode will help you understand how to position yourself for better results.

Timestamps:

00:00 Lawyers Fire Clients
01:01 Family Law Burnout
03:05 Why Family Law Never Ends
04:08 Client Types Overview
04:49 "I'm Paying You" Client
06:28 Emotional Reactor Client
08:04 Half In Half Out Client
09:12 Informed But Unfocused Client
10:20 Strategic Client Wins
12:34 Client Responsibilities
15:53 Wrap Up And Next Steps

What You’ll Learn

✅ The five types of clients lawyers commonly work with;
✅ Why some clients weaken their own cases without realizing it;
✅ How emotional reactions can hurt your credibility;
✅ The difference between being informed and being strategic;
✅ What lawyers actually want from their clients;
✅ How to become a more strategic client.

Next Step:

✅ Take the Diagnostic Assessment (recommended if you want clarity on what’s weakening your case positioning)
👉🏼 https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/page/strategic-case-diagnostic-assessment

✅ Book a 1-Hour Strategy Session
👉🏼 https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/store/products/one-hour-strategy-session-via-zoom

✅ Subscribe / Follow the podcast
👉🏼 https://open.spotify.com/show/4XLm4xy7cUfl4XDY06YDsU?si=3df26

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

862.800.7850

Settling your case can feel like the fastest path to having the peace you once enjoyed.

Less stress.
Less conflict.
Less time in court.

And sometimes… settling is absolutely the right move.

But settling just to end the stress without understanding what you're giving up can create new problems later down the road.

In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee discusses one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your Family Court case: when to give up or when to give in…how to settle with no regrets.

Because settling for peace doesn’t always lead to peace.

If you're considering settlement, or feeling pressure to settle, this episode will help you evaluate your options and make informed decisions that align with your long-term goals.

Timestamps:
00:00 Settling With Eyes Open
01:14 What Settling Means
01:22 Peaceful Settlement Blueprint
03:10 Mediation And Informed Tradeoffs
05:38 When Peace Is A Trap
06:22 Scenario One Mediation Pressure
10:00 Scenario Two Hearing Without Discovery
13:35 Scenario Three Settling At Trial
18:48 No Winners Just Informed Choices
20:00 Wrap Up And Next Steps

Next Step:

✅ Take the Diagnostic Assessment (recommended if you want clarity on what’s weakening your case positioning)
👉🏼 https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/page/strategic-case-diagnostic-assessment

✅ Book a 1-Hour Strategy Session
👉🏼 https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/store/products/one-hour-strategy-session-via-zoom

✅ Subscribe / Follow the podcast
👉🏼 https://open.spotify.com/show/4XLm4xy7cUfl4XDY06YDsU?si=3df261187b624c1a&nd=1&dlsi=789c9c8b30484539

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.