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Ever notice how fast resentment grows when expectations stay unspoken? We dig into the subtle ways unrealistic demands creep into marriages, friendships, and teams—then show how to reset the rules with clarity, kindness, and zero drama. From punctuality clashes to perfectionism on worship teams, from job descriptions that quietly expand to family roles that change with newborns, we break down the moments where good intentions derail because no one said what they truly needed.

You’ll hear how we’ve learned to match expectations to real capacity, not idealized versions of people. We talk about building a simple culture of “show up on time, be prepared, communicate early” and why flexibility matters when life gets loud. Tyler joins by phone between newborn feedings to share how leading a growing team means adapting to seasons, protecting well-being, and keeping worship joyful instead of stressful. We also get practical with scripts you can borrow: how to set boundaries without sounding like you’re issuing ultimatums, how to negotiate responsibilities at home when work and health shift, and how to create clear agreements with kids that actually stick.

If you’ve been feeling stretched thin by moving goalposts at work, or hurt when a friend can’t meet your pace, this conversation offers a reset. Expect less guessing and more trust. Expect fewer blowups and more honest tradeoffs. And expect to leave with language you can use today to make your relationships sturdier and your teams saner. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a nudge toward clarity, and leave a quick review to help others find us. What expectation will you reset this week?

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