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Episode Spotlight: Slow Burn vs. The "Spark"

Episode Spotlight: Slow Burn vs. The "Spark"

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Should you wait for the slow burn? Or chase the spark?

This question keeps so many late bloomers stuck in overthinking, second-guessing, and dating people who aren’t right for them.

In this episode of The Late Bloomer Show, Lily breaks down the real truth about attraction and connection, including:

The pros + cons of both the spark and the slow burn

Why both approaches can lead to wasted time

What to focus on instead (hint: curiosity > rules)

How to ground yourself with Lily’s Date Feedback Compass

If you’ve ever stressed about whether you “knew” soon enough or felt enough chemistry, this episode will give you clarity and freedom.

🎧 Listen now and find out why curiosity—not binaries—is the most powerful dating tool.

Work with Lily:

→ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

→ Read Thank You More Please: datebrazen.com/book

→ Learn more about Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/dating

→ Learn how to work with Lily: datebrazen.com

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