In today’s episode, I’m sharing a moment from the Jasmine Star Business Mentorship community that sparked a powerful reflection on how we—and our teens—view progress. When someone vulnerably shared their struggle to celebrate small wins, I responded with encouragement, and what unfolded was a reminder of how deeply this mindset shows up in adults and students alike.

But just as meaningful as the conversation itself was the community behind it. The support, the “me too” moments, and the shared humanity inside that space revealed something important: we don’t grow alone. And this isn’t just true for us as adults—it’s true for our teens as well.

Parents need community. Teens need community.

And both need environments where growth is seen, celebrated, and supported.

This episode explores why celebrating small wins matters, how identity is shaped in the process, and how community plays a vital role in helping both adults and teens see their own progress more clearly.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why adults and teens struggle to celebrate small wins
• How your reactions shape the way your teen interprets their own progress
• The powerful role community plays in helping us see our growth
• How small wins influence identity, motivation, and confidence
• Language shifts parents can use to support a growth mindset
• Ways to reframe academic pressure, rejection, and stress for your teen
• Practical strategies to help your teen value the journey, not just the outcome

The Power of Community (For Teens and Parents)

Inside the mentorship program, the moment someone admitted they struggled to celebrate small wins, the community responded with empathy—not judgment. That collective support is what makes growth feel possible.

Parents need that same kind of support.

Raising teens can feel isolating, and yet so many families face the same challenges. When parents have a trusted community—other adults who understand the pressures, the emotions, and the desire to get it right—it helps them stay grounded, patient, and confident.

And when teens have community, they feel less alone in their challenges and more empowered to keep trying.

Community creates belonging.

Belonging fuels resilience.

And resilience helps small wins take root.

Key Takeaways for Parents:

• Small wins reveal who your teen is becoming, not just what they achieve.
• Your home can be the safe place where effort is valued more than perfection.
• Community helps adults and teens feel supported, understood, and less alone.
• Micro-celebrations are essential for motivation and emotional regulation.
• Rejection isn’t a verdict—it’s redirection, and you can help your teen see that.
• Modeling your own small wins helps your teen learn to recognize theirs.

Try This at Home:

• Ask your teen: “What’s one small win from today?”
• Praise identity traits (courage, perseverance, initiative) instead of results.
• Share your own small wins out loud to normalize the practice.
• Create a “family win jar” to read together each week or month.
• Encourage community—clubs, teams, study groups, supportive adults.

Shoutout

A heartfelt thank-you to the incredible humans inside the Jasmine Star Business Mentorship community. Your vulnerability and support inspired this episode and reminded me how deeply we all need spaces where we feel seen and supported.

Connect With Me

If this episode encouraged you or helped you see your teen differently, I’d love to hear from you. Share a small win—yours or your teen’s—and let’s celebrate together.

lindsay@thecollegecounselingmom.com

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