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Episode 6: Hurt Men vs. Healed Men: The Real Divide in Our Community.

Episode 6: Hurt Men vs. Healed Men: The Real Divide in Our Community.

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Today on UNBUTTONED, we’re getting brutally honest.

Not about sexuality — but about behavior.

Why do so many gay men come off as cold, judgmental, competitive, or straight-up mean?

Not because they’re gay…but because they’re unhealed.

In this episode, I break down the difference between hurt men and healed men — the ego, the armor, the insecurities, the body hierarchy, the dating games, and the emotional survival strategies that shape our entire community.

If you’ve ever felt judged, dismissed, ghosted, compared, or misunderstood…

or if you’ve ever wondered why gay spaces can feel both empowering and exhausting at the same time…

You’re not imagining it.

There is a pattern — and today, we unbutton it.

This episode is for the men who have healed, the men who are healing, and the men who are finally ready to stop performing and start belonging.

Let’s talk about the truth everyone feels… but nobody wants to say out loud.

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