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Episode 46: When Life Doesn’t Look Like the Vision Board

Episode 46: When Life Doesn’t Look Like the Vision Board

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In this episode of Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter, I speak to the quiet grief and gentle grace of realising that the woman we imagined we’d be, disciplined, early rising, ever-consistent, isn’t always the woman midlife asks us to be.

Perimenopause changes the rhythm. Energy shifts. Sleep becomes unpredictable. The morning routines we once clung to don’t always fit anymore. And instead of forcing ourselves to perform, to perfect, to keep up, this season invites us to soften.

This is a conversation about letting go of the idealised version of ourselves we’ve been measuring against, and learning instead to listen to our bodies, our needs, our natural pace. It’s about trading perfection for presence, routine for rhythm, and doing for being.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re “failing” at consistency, this episode is your reminder that nothing is wrong with you. You are not behind. You are not losing yourself. You are learning to live from the inside out.

For reflections, rituals, and resources to support your becoming, visit Kiransinghuk.com and explore the Digital Library, or join me on Substack at Midlife by Design: Curating Your Next Chapter.

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