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Episode 17: High Needs, Low Needs, Same Fight - Why We’re Stronger Together

Episode 17: High Needs, Low Needs, Same Fight - Why We’re Stronger Together

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When governments draw lines between “high support needs” and “low support needs,” families get pitted against each other — and everyone loses.

In this episode, Kirsten Killoran, matrescence coach and mother of a nonspeaking autistic child, explores Ireland’s proposed shift toward dividing autistic children into categories of need — and the devastating ripple effects that follow.

From history’s old labels of “deserving” and “undeserving” to modern austerity politics dressed up as reform, Kirsten unpacks how these divides harm families, fracture advocacy, and erase invisible struggles. Drawing on voices like Audre Lorde, bell hooks, Nancy Fraser, and Tom Shakespeare, she reveals how “divide and conquer” has long been used to silence care — and why solidarity between parents is the only way forward.

Raw, political, and full of heart, this is a call to unity for every parent raising an autistic or disabled child — no matter how your child’s needs are described.

Because autism isn’t high or low.
And neither are we.

Caution: This episode includes mentions of self-harm and suicidal thoughts. If you need support, contact Pieta House (1800 247 247), Samaritans (116 123), or your GP.


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