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Episode 12 | Self-Control: Leading from the Inside Out

Episode 12 | Self-Control: Leading from the Inside Out

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 In Episode 12, "Self-Control: Leading from the Inside Out," Dr. Phenessa Gray brings our transformative journey through the nine fruits of the Spirit to a powerful close. This isn't just another episode about discipline—it's a reimagining of what self-mastery truly means for leaders who want to create lasting impact without burning out.What You'll Discover:Why self-control is like ancient city walls—not about isolation, but about protection of what's precious within.The neuroscience of self-regulation and how your prefrontal cortex strengthens with practice.Dr. Roy Baumeister's research on why self-control functions like a muscle.The critical difference between self-effort (which exhausts) and Spirit-partnership (which sustains).Practical strategies: The Boundary Architecture Framework and Sacred Pauses technique.How to conduct a decision fatigue audit and preserve mental capacity for what matters most.Perfect For:Library leaders and information professionals navigating service-oriented workAspiring leaders building sustainable leadership practicesAnyone who processes deeply, feels intensely, or carries others' emotionsLeaders tired of performative productivity and hustle cultureThose seeking to integrate faith and strategy in their leadershipEpisode Highlights Include:Anchor scriptures from Proverbs 25:28 (The Passion Translation & The Voice)Research-backed leadership strategies from organizational psychologyA transformative Grace & Grit Moment addressing perfectionism and boundariesGuided 4-4-6 breathwork for centeringHeart-Mind Check with reflective journaling promptsClosing prayer for the entire Fruit of the Spirit seriesDr. Phenessa Gray masterfully weaves together Biblical wisdom, cutting-edge research, and practical coaching to help you establish boundaries that honor your capacity, protect your peace, and preserve your power to lead effectively.Whether you're leading a team, stewarding community resources, or aspiring to greater influence, this episode will transform how you think about self-control—not as restriction, but as the ultimate act of self-respect and divine partnership.This is leadership from the inside out. This is Love & Light Leadership.Biblical References:Proverbs 25:28 (The Passion Translation & The Expanded Bible)Galatians 5:22-23 (multiple translations) - The fruit of the Spirit, with self-control as the culminating virtue1 Corinthians 9:25 - Paul's teaching on self-discipline in pursuit of purpose2 Peter 1:5-6 - Building self-control upon faith and virtueJohn 15:5 - "Apart from me you can do nothing" - emphasizing divine partnershipVisit BibleGateway.com for further study.Research & Theory:Baumeister, R. F., & Tierney, J. (2011). Willpower: Rediscovering the greatest human strength. Penguin Press. [Foundational research establishing self-control as a depletable but trainable cognitive resource, with implications for leadership effectiveness]Duckworth, A. (2016). Grit: The power of passion and perseverance. Scribner. [Explores how sustained self-discipline combined with passion leads to exceptional achievement across various fields]Clear, J. (2018). Atomic habits: An easy & proven way to build good habits & break bad ones. Avery. [Practical framework for designing environments and systems that reduce reliance on willpower through habit architecture]•Kahneman, D. (2011). Thinking, fast and slow. Farrar, Straus and Giroux. [Explains automatic versus deliberate thinking systems, providing insight into impulse control mechanisms]•Vohs, K. D., & Baumeister, R. F. (2016). Handbook of self-regulation: Research, theory, and applications (3rd ed.). Guilford Press. [Comprehensive academic resource examining self-regulation across psychological, organizational, and developmental contexts]•Muraven, M., & Baumeister, R. F. (2000). "Self-regulation and depletion of limited resources: Does self-control resemble a muscle?" Psychological Bulletin, 126(2), 247-259. [Seminal research establishing the ego depletion model and muscle metaphor for self-control]Additional Context:Prefrontal cortex research in cognitive neuroscience demonstrates that executive function capacity strengthens with deliberate practice of self-regulatory behaviors, supporting the concept that self-control develops through consistent exercise rather than being a fixed trait.Industrial-Organizational psychology research establishes clear connections between leader self-regulation and reduced team burnout, improved decision-making quality, and enhanced psychological safety within work environments.Studies in service professions, including library science and information services, emphasize the critical role of boundary-setting and energy management in preventing compassion fatigue and sustaining long-term effectiveness in mission-driven work.All references selected for availability through public libraries, university databases, or widely available published works.________________________________________Connect ...
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