How to stop justifying every boundary you set at work

You said no to something last week. Or you tried to. What came out was closer to a small essay explaining why you couldn't, what else you had on, how sorry you were, and an offer to maybe look at it later. You walked away feeling like you'd run a negotiation when all you wanted to do was protect your time.

This episode of Career Espresso is about why women over-explain their boundaries at work, and what it looks like when you stop.

What you'll discover

• Why the lengthy justification isn't a confidence problem, and what you're actually trying to prevent every time you add another sentence
• How explaining your no in detail hands the other person exactly what they need to talk you out of it
• The difference between a boundary that holds and one that opens a door you didn't mean to open
• What to do when someone keeps pushing after you've already been clear
• How to recognise scope creep, last-minute requests, and unnecessary meetings before they quietly eat your week
• Why your emails are the place to start noticing the pattern

Perfect for women who know where their limits are but keep exhausting themselves trying to make other people comfortable with them.

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