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How venting, comfort, and previous progress can keep you stuck.

At some point, therapy can cross a quiet line ... where growth turns into comfort, and sessions become weekly venting instead of real change. In this episode, we talk about that line, how easy it is to miss, and why staying “supported” can sometimes keep you stuck longer than being uncomfortable ever did.

We unpack the belief that therapy is supposed to feel safe, validating, and relieving every time, and how that belief can quietly block accountability, self-examination, and real healing. We talk about what happens when insight replaces action, when therapy language replaces responsibility, and when discomfort gets avoided instead of explored.

We also get clear about what effective therapy actually requires:

🔑 How to tell if therapy is helping you grow or just helping you cope
Relief isn’t the same as progress.

🪞 Why real healing usually feels uncomfortable, triggering, and confronting
If nothing’s being challenged, nothing’s changing.

💥 How to approach therapy in a goal oriented way
You’re allowed to question your therapist, change therapists, and search for more from the process.


We share our own experience spending eight years in therapy that felt supportive but kept us looping in the same patterns, and how the last year with a therapist who pushed, interrupted, and held us accountable created more growth than all the years before combined.

Therapy isn’t supposed to be easy. It’s supposed to change you.

Let’s unpack it.

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