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Episode 012: The Messy Middle: Why 90% of High-Achievers Quit Before the Breakthrough

Episode 012: The Messy Middle: Why 90% of High-Achievers Quit Before the Breakthrough

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In this episode, we tackle the most critical truth about achieving ambitious goals: The messy middle is where most people quit. It is also the only place breakthroughs happen.

High performers set bold goals. They start strong, full of energy and excitement. But halfway through—when the path gets steeper, the results slow down, and self-doubt creeps in—they mistake resistance for rejection and turn around. They quit before the miracle happens.

But that habit is costing you more than just this one goal. It's costing you the pattern of finishing what you start, the unshakable confidence of an unstoppable leader, and the breathtaking view waiting at the top. What is the real cost of quitting at the messy middle? Is it another year of mediocrity? A lifetime of 'almosts'?

High-impact leaders know the messy middle isn't a sign to stop. It's definitive proof you are close to a breakthrough.

This episode reveals The Cathedral Rock Principle—a powerful, personal lesson from climbing one of Sedona's most challenging landmarks that changed everything about how I approach goals. You will learn why success is always hardest right before it gets easy, what emotional and professional "baggage" you need to leave behind to keep climbing, and why worrying about "the way down" before you reach the top is the fatal mistake wasting your energy.

you're in the messy middle of your career goal, feeling stuck, doubting yourself, or wondering if you should quit... you don't need to turn back. You just need a new framework for resilience. How could you take one more, high-leverage step today, before you even finish listening? This story holds the key to your breakthrough.


✨Inside This Episode You’ll Discover:


  • The Cathedral Rock Principle: Why the climb always gets hardest right before the top, and how to use that resistance as your motivation.
  • The Quit Zone: What the "messy middle" is and the one mental triggerthat causes 9 out of 10 people to quit here.
  • The Backpack Metaphor: How to identify and strategically discard the emotional, professional, and behavioral baggage that is currently weighing you down.
  • Success Amnesia: Why you forgot how hard your last big achievement was (and what that means for your current push).
  • The Fatal Mistake: Why worrying about "the way down" (i.e., What if I fail?) while you're still climbing up is sabotaging your momentum.
  • High-Impact Accountability: The secret to having people who've "been to the top" keep you going when you want to surrender.

🔥 Your Next Step: Stop Quitting, Start Climbing.

  1. Reflection: Diagnose Your Position.Where are you in your journey right now—at the start, the messy middle, or near the top? What do you need to leave behind (your version of the backpack) to keep climbing? The answers are the doorway to your next level.
  2. Share Your Resilience: When you listen, take a screenshot, tag me on Instagram @thepowerhousecode, and share: Are you in the messy middle right now? Your message might just be the encouragement someone else needs to keep climbing.
  3. Ready for Guided Ascent? If you are ready to stop quitting and finally achieve your boldest goals with proven strategy, DM Samantha to explore your options:thepowerhousecode.com/contact

P.S. Don't miss your chance for priority access to our flagship program. Join the ElevateYou Program Waitlist 2025: www.thepowerhousecode.com/waitlist2025

Connect with Samantha:

  • Website: thepowerhousecode.com
  • Instagram: @thepowerhousecode
  • LinkedIn: Samantha Van Hoof Flores
  • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepowerhousecode
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