Is He Your Beloved? The Myth of Perfect Love and The Freedom to Be You.

Ever wonder what happens when a relationship is so natural, you don't even have to try? In this episode, we're spilling the tea on the myth of "perfect" love, the bizarre body language advice we've been given, and why not having to "perform" for your partner is the ultimate form of psychological safety.

We dive into the surprising power of simply being, and why finding a love that requires no scripts is a bigger win than any list or vision board could ever predict. Plus, Ushi Patel gets real about confronting duplicity, breaking cycles, and the personal work that finally allowed her to attract a partner who sees her, loves her "gnarly" parts, and lets her be completely undone. This is your intimate invitation to the realest conversation you'll have all week.

Episode Map:

• [00:00:14] The Body Language That Made Me Want to Throw Up: Discussing bizarre advice to be submissive in love.

  
  

• [00:01:19] When 'Open for the Kill' Feels Like an Ex-Lover's Whisper: Connecting past trauma to present body language aversion.

  
  

• [00:02:15] The Power of 'Nothing to Do': Finding a relationship so safe and natural it defies all expectations.

  
  

• [00:05:19] The Surprising Freedom of Not Performing: Unpacking the difference between being and performing in a healthy partnership.

  
  

• [00:06:29] "Why Do I Let That Live?": Ushi's raw confession about a cheating ex and confronting duplicitous cycles in her life.

  
  

• [00:08:53] From Self-Abandonment to Self-Worth: The deep work that led to attracting a love that doesn't require a performance.

  
  

• [00:13:05] The Power of an 'Untamed Scream': Ushi shares a personal story of being able to be fully undone with no judgment.

  
  

• [00:15:20] How Designing a Brand Redesigns Your Life: Connecting personal healing to creating a magnetized life and attracting your person.

  
  

Join us in this untamed sanctuary where vulnerability is our superpower. Share this with a beloved girlfriend or superwoman in your life.

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