Can you really find passionate, healthy love after a devastating divorce at 50? This episode is less about theory and more about lived experience. Lauren Handel Zander, my coach and mentor, walks through the emotional aftermath of divorce, the mistakes she made, the phases she moved through, and the unexpected way love eventually arrived.

Dating after divorce over 50 can feel intimidating, discouraging, or flat-out hopeless, especially when you believe the good ones are gone. This episode is an unusually candid conversation about what really happens after divorce, and it’s designed for women over 50 who want both companionship and passion without settling.

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This is our first episode entirely dedicated to giving people hope about dating after divorce!

We cover: 💔 The moment Lauren knew her marriage was over 🌱 How she knew she was ready to date again 🔄 The three distinct stages of dating after divorce 🧹 The definition of creating a “clean scene” and what it looks like 📱 How she worked video chat and dating apps differently than expected 🔥 The moment it stopped being casual and how casual caused healing 💞 Why this relationship worked when others did not 😲 The big reveal at the end that shocked me the most

Dating After Divorce Topic List & Timestamps 00:00–03:05 The Shock of Divorce Lauren shares how she was blindsided after 25 years of marriage and what the first year really looked like emotionally. 03:05–10:16 The “Gap Year” After Divorce Why she revisited old crushes, what she learned, and how this stage rebuilt her confidence. 10:16–19:48 Dating Apps Over 50 and the Clean Scene Her strict rules for Bumble, fast video calls, ruthless deleting, and why she refused to waste time. 19:48–27:16 Responsible Hookups vs Adults with Potential How she separated casual dating from long-term prospects and applied Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha differently. 27:16–33:01 When Casual Turned Into Something More The moment that changed everything and revealed emotional availability in action. 33:01–39:15 Age Gaps, Culture, and Family Challenges Navigating an age gap, family dynamics, and blending lives in midlife. 39:15–47:32 Why You Cannot Settle in Midlife Dating What it takes to attract a partner who meets you on all 3 levels and why healing work matters. 47:32–End Next Week… Laurie previews next week’s episode on how to tell if someone is emotionally available and what to look for before you invest months or years.

Resources Mentioned ✅ Inner.U Love course by Lauren Handel Zander: https://inner-u.mykajabi.com/laurie-inneru-sales-page

If you want guidance navigating dating over 50 without burnout, confusion, or settling, start here: 👉 Join Laurie’s free webinar and explore her coaching resources at https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar

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