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Ep 047: The FUN Habit in Parenting and in Life with Dr. Mike Rucker

Ep 047: The FUN Habit in Parenting and in Life with Dr. Mike Rucker

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 Dr. Mike Rucker is an organizational psychologist, behavioral scientist, and charter member of the International Positive Psychology Association. He has been academically published in publications like the International Journal of Workplace Health Management. His ideas about fun and health have been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Fast Company, Psychology Today, Forbes, Vox, Thrive Global, Mindful, mindbodygreen, and more. He currently serves as a senior leader at Active Wellness and is the author of 2023’s top-rated happiness book, The Fun Habit, which is out now.TakeawaysToxic positivity and the pursuit of happiness can be detrimental to mental well-being.Acknowledging and processing trauma is essential for healing and personal growth.Positive psychology tools should be tailored to individual contexts and needs.Finding time for fun and adding enjoyable experiences to life can enhance overall well-being. The fun habit is an invitation to have joy in the present moment, rather than constantly chasing after happiness.Making deliberate choices to incorporate fun into life can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background01:11 Writing 'The Fun Habit'04:38 Personal Trauma and Identity Crisis06:08 Toxic Positivity and Glossing Over Experiences08:12 Positive Psychology and Processing Trauma10:02 Tailoring Positive Psychology Tools11:25 The Importance of Context in Positive Psychology13:13 Acknowledging Complexity and Individual Differences15:09 Empathy and Understanding in Parenting19:38 Connection and Rapport with Children22:11 The Impact of Internet and Access to Information25:16 The Changing Dynamics of Parenting27:11 The Importance of Fun and Connection in Parenting31:15 Creating Moments of Fun and Connection36:40 Embracing All Feelings and Adding Fun to Life38:47 Finding Time for Fun41:38 The Fun Habit as an Invitation to Have Joy in the Present43:58 The Impact of Lack of Leisure on Burnout and Productivity47:57 The Shift in Parenting Paradigms50:15 Navigating the Challenges of Parenting in the Digital Age53:04 The Negative Effects of Social Media on Children55:28 The Importance of Parental Guidance in the Digital World58:14 Making Deliberate Choices to Incorporate Fun into Life01:01:08 Overcoming Inertia and Finding Enjoyable Activities01:04:08 The Power of Environment, People, and Activity in Finding Joy01:07:29 The Hedonic Flexibility Principle and Seeking Challenges01:09:23 Balancing Hard Work and Rest through FunWhere to Find Mike:1) | website | https://michaelrucker.com2) | Twitter | https://twitter.com/performbetter3) | Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mike.rucker.phd4) | Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thewonderoffun5) | LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelrucker6) | Pinterest | https://www.pinterest.com/mikeruckerphd7) | Simon & Schuster | https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Fun-Habit/Mike-Rucker/97819821590548) | Substack | https://funhabit.substack.comWatch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therelationalparentingpodcast/videosEmail us your parenting questions and stories!: jennie@jenniebee.co.Help us do what we do with a small monthly contribution: https://www.patreon.com/TheRelationalParentCoach/membershipJoin the WAITLIST for The Relational Parenting Village! - A New Monthly Membership Program where parents gather for community, growth, accountability and support. PLUS ongoing monthly live events, classes and education resources to keep you motivated and growing on your parenting journey. Let's do this!!Find me or book a free consult:Website: https://www.jenniebee.co/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therelationalparentingpodcast/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.hayes.507TikTok: @therelationalparentcoachSign up for the weekly newsletter here for a weekly parenting tip!Please leave us a review! Your feedback helps others find us, and helps us grow so we can keep creating content for parents to benefit from.Creators & Guests Natalie Long - EditorJennifer Hayes - HostMike Rucker - GuestHappy Parenting and Good Luck Out There!
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