Episodes

  • We Got Company! Your High Conflict Ex Has Started Dating

    We Got Company! Your High Conflict Ex Has Started Dating
    Feb 5 2026
    On this episode of Endgame: Mastering the High Conflict Divorce Vani Kovitch helps prepare you for when the unthinkable happens; your soon-to-be-ex starts a new relationship before the ink is even dry on divorce papers. Vani covers some of the biggest potential complications that arrive with this newcomer, such as complications in legal proceedings and the confusion it can cause for your children. But Vani also covers important self-preservation techniques and how this may actually be your biggest stroke of luck yet. Make sure to listen and prepare yourself for fresh faces and new nightmares. More From Vani Kovitch Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    19 mins
  • Navigating Family and Friends During Your High Conflict Divorce

    Navigating Family and Friends During Your High Conflict Divorce
    Jan 29 2026
    Your life is full of important relationships with other people; your parents, your children, your friends, etc. And all of those people have unique relationships with each other. Now these relationships are being affected and tested by your high conflict divorce. In this episode of Endgame, Vani Kovitch discusses the importance of maintaining all of the relationships peripheral to your divorce and how to protect your network through this difficult time. Vani discusses how to protect friendships and protect your spaces outside of your divorce, while also working to understand who is truly here to support you. She also covers the complications of crisscrossing relationships in your extended family and how to avoid the drama that arises when people feel that they must pick sides. Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 mins
  • Triangulation, Weaponization, and Manipulation with Dr. Lanie Resnick - Part 2

    Triangulation, Weaponization, and Manipulation with Dr. Lanie Resnick - Part 2
    Jan 22 2026
    This is the second episode in our two-part interview with Dr. Lanie Resnick! Dr. Resnick is a clinical psychologist, certified psychoanalyst, and specialist in children’s development. Lanie is often called to court to testify on child custody cases and is very familiar with navigating high conflict divorce dynamics. In this fantastic interview Dr. Resnick shares invaluable information about how to best protect yourself and your child throughout divorce proceedings. Dr. Resnick has wonderful insights from her years of experience about the rights and protections guaranteed to your child. She also shares important warning signs of tactics that your narcissistic ex may attempt to use to triangulate you, them, and your children. Make sure to catch all three parts of this incredible conversation to understand how to best protect yourself and your relationships in and out of the courtroom! Connect with Dr. Lanie Resnick at drlanieres@gmail.com More From Vani Kovitch Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 mins
  • Triangulation, Weaponization, and Manipulation with Dr. Lanie Resnick – Part 1

    Triangulation, Weaponization, and Manipulation with Dr. Lanie Resnick – Part 1
    Jan 15 2026
    This is the first episode in our two-part interview with Dr. Lanie Resnick! Dr. Resnick is a clinical psychologist, certified psychoanalyst, and specialist in children’s development. Lanie is often called to court to testify on child custody cases and is very familiar with navigating high conflict divorce dynamics. In this fantastic interview Dr. Resnick shares invaluable information about how to best protect yourself and your child throughout divorce proceedings. Dr. Resnick has wonderful insights from her years of experience about the rights and protections guaranteed to your child. She also shares important warning signs of tactics that your narcissistic ex may attempt to use to triangulate you, them, and your children. Make sure to catch both parts of this incredible conversation to understand how to best protect yourself and your relationships in and out of the courtroom! Connect with Dr. Lanie Resnick at drlanieres@gmail.com More From Vani Kovitch Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    30 mins
  • Know Your Enemy: Understanding the Three Types of Narcissists

    Know Your Enemy: Understanding the Three Types of Narcissists
    Jan 8 2026
    Vani Kovitch explains the three different classifications of narcissists and helps you understand how to identify who you are dealing with in your high conflict divorce. Vani covers not only the definition of each type, but also provides examples of behaviors that will help you find the label that best fits your narcissist. Make sure to take Vani’s quick and simple quiz to get invaluable feedback from Vani herself that will help you understand exactly which type of narcissist you are up against! Vani will email you with personalized results and targeted strategies for your situation. You can find the quiz at: www.vanidivorcecoach.com More From Vani Kovitch Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 mins
  • Shaping Your New Holiday Season During a High Conflict Divorce

    Shaping Your New Holiday Season During a High Conflict Divorce
    Dec 18 2025
    On this episode Vani provides timely advice for getting through the already difficult holiday season while dealing with a combative ex-spouse. Vani provides important tips that will put up guardrails to make sure that you and your loved ones can have safe and peaceful celebrations during this transition. She also provides some great advice on how to see new opportunities in what might initially seem like disappointing changes to tradition. If you are struggling to reshape your holidays after your high conflict divorce Vani is here to help you through! More From Vani Kovitch Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    12 mins
  • We Want Prenup: How a Prenup can Make or Break Your High Conflict Divorce with Sherri Sharma

    We Want Prenup: How a Prenup can Make or Break Your High Conflict Divorce with Sherri Sharma
    Dec 11 2025
    Sherri Sharma joins Vani to discuss how to most effectively use your general when facing potential hazards in a high conflict divorce. Sherri has spent more than 15 years focusing exclusively on matrimonial and family law, including the equitable distribution of assets, custody, child and spousal support, as well as prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Sherri represents a range of clients, from investment bankers, private equity investors, and hedge fund managers, to lawyers and business owners, to artists and actors. Sherri also represents the spouses of her professional clients and works with unmarried and same-sex couples. Sherri offers insights about communication methods, prenuptial agreements, and co-parenting with narcissistic spouses during the divorce process. She also touches on when, and when not, to turn to your attorney in the divorce process. Sherri and Vani even discuss preemptive steps you can take to protect yourself during the marriage process and how to protect yourself from a combative ex. You can learn more about Sherri on her website here! More From Vani Kovitch Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 mins
  • Money Games: Understanding and Protecting Your Finances Before the Divorce

    Money Games: Understanding and Protecting Your Finances Before the Divorce
    Dec 4 2025
    In this episode, we’ll explore the foundational topic of finances, focusing on the importance of understanding, awareness, and preparation. I’ll walk you through my top seven “Items of Awareness” that everyone should stay on top of—whether you’re facing a divorce or not. Keep these key areas on your radar: Household bills Tax statements Mortgage or rent details (How much? Are you on the title of the home?) Kids and trusts for your children Bank account information Credit cards (Do you have your own, a joint card, or both?) Frozen assets If there’s one takeaway from today’s episode, it’s this: educate yourself about your finances and stay informed. As we begin laying the foundation for what’s to come in this podcast, I want to thank you all again for your incredible support. More From Vani Kovitch Website: www.vanidivorcecoach.com Instagram: @vanidivorcecoach LinkedIn: Vani Kovitch Facebook: Vani Divorce Coach Email: vani@vanikovitch.com This is a Redd Rock Music Podcast IG: @reddrockmusic www.reddrockmusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    20 mins