What’s it really like to work side by side with your spouse every day? In this episode, we get real about the challenges, the breakthroughs, and the lessons learned from building a business together while keeping our marriage strong. From figuring out roles to setting boundaries, we dive into what has helped us survive—and thrive—as both business partners and life partners.

We share stories from our own journey, including the rough patches, the learning curves, and the systems we’ve put in place to balance family, work, and personal time. Whether you’re already working with your significant other or just curious about what it takes, you’ll find practical advice you can apply to strengthen both your business and your relationship.

Episode Timeline Highlights:

[0:00] – Our backstory: high school sweethearts to business partners

[1:53] – Why working together wasn’t the original plan

[2:53] – How growth seasons can strain your relationship (and how to cope)

[4:02] – Setting boundaries with time, clients, and each other

[5:12] – Why rest and time off are crucial for long-term success

[7:17] – Tools we use to set expectations with clients and team members

[8:32] – The rocky first 30 days of working together

[9:22] – How a coach helped us navigate roles and responsibilities

[10:33] – Dividing tasks by strengths and personality differences

[12:11] – The importance of alone time and self-care practices

[14:06] – Boundaries with clients, friends, and even each other

[15:17] – Why our relationship always comes before the business

[16:57] – Date nights, meditation, and other habits that keep us grounded

[20:15] – Trial and error: finding what works and what doesn’t

[22:04] – When to bring on extra help and delegate tasks

[23:11] – Practical tips: lists, roles, and personality tests

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Boundaries are non-negotiable – Set limits on your time, communication, and responsibilities to protect your relationship and your sanity.

2. Play to your strengths – Divide roles based on what each partner enjoys and does best, then delegate or outsource the rest.

3. Your relationship comes first – Business success means nothing if your partnership suffers; prioritize your marriage above all else.

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