Episodes

  • Living Alone & Co-Sleeping

    Living Alone & Co-Sleeping
    Jul 17 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam :) Cami is doing a solo episode from San Diego, giving us an update on living alone (apart from Niki), adjusting to a new city, and trying to find a new sense of security and routine. She also dives into co-sleeping with her boyfriend when they spend the night at each other's places. How do you feel about separate blankets? What about separate rooms altogether? Enjoy a deep, restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off sitewide.
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    29 mins
  • Throwback Thursday: Nailing Balls with Colette Pervette

    Throwback Thursday: Nailing Balls with Colette Pervette
    Jul 10 2025
    DT FAM for this week, let's throw it back to November 2023, when we recorded with Colette Pervette, a professional Domme and Educatrix. She had some *WILD* stories... one that even had our producer leaving the room to gather himself for 5 minutes. Listening back to this episode was so fun for me, and I hope you all enjoy it just as much all over again. We will be back with a new episode next week!
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    48 mins
  • What Would You Do Differently?

    What Would You Do Differently?
    Jul 3 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam! Back in April, Niki asked our IG followers what they would do differently if they could restart their non-monogamous journey all over again. The responses definitely had a few themes, so we discuss those in today's episode: tune in to find out! If you're over 21, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM for savings on your order :)
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    38 mins
  • High & Low Libidos

    High & Low Libidos
    Jun 26 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tactics, conversation starters, and more. We also briefly touch on using non-monogamy as a tool for couples looking to bridge the gap with the help of others outside the relationship. Hope you enjoy! For those of you over 21, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings ! Order your vaginal microbiome test at Evvy with code DTFAM10 and take charge of your vaginal health today!
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    37 mins
  • Vanilla Sunday w Cami: How To Give Your Children "The Talk"

    Vanilla Sunday w Cami: How To Give Your Children "The Talk"
    Jun 15 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam! Cami is here with a Vanilla Sunday all about her course, Empowering Caretakers:NAVIGATING SEX EDUCATION CONVERSATIONS WITH KIDS AND TEENS. She's discussed a bit of it on the podcast here and there, but this is a more in depth look, featuring some of the fascinating things she learned along the way and a look at her experience in creating this course. For current or future parents, this is a great listen and we hope you enjoy! Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off your course :)
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    19 mins
  • Wanking Together

    Wanking Together
    Jun 12 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam! Just the two of us this week :) Given our long distance relationships, we dive into the topic of wanking together with your partner, especially over FaceTime. For LDR couples, this is a great episode going over some tips, finding the confidence, and using this as a way to continue building intimacy together. Enjoy! Enjoy a restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress made of quality and luxurious materials from Birch Living! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your new Birch mattress. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp Co and use code DTFAM at checkout.
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    21 mins
  • Ways to Surprise Your Partner

    Ways to Surprise Your Partner
    Jun 5 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings and free shipping.
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    39 mins
  • For If Your Partner is Having a Bad Day

    For If Your Partner is Having a Bad Day
    May 29 2025
    Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get your vaginal microbiome tested with Evvy! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout for savings on your test. Enjoy a great night's sleep with a Birch Mattress! Go to birchliving.com/dtf and get 27% Off sitewide + 2 free Eco-Rest Pillows with your mattress purchase! If you're 21 and over, get our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout!
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    39 mins