Episodes

  • Closing Up Shop For The Winter

    Closing Up Shop For The Winter
    Dec 22 2025
    Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Situationship Doesn’t Want a Relationship Dating a divorce woman in her 40s with kids And also discuss Melisa’s trip to Arkansas, Meghan making cookies with her neighbors, Wake Up Dead Man: A Knives Out Mystery, and review Meghan’s 2025 predictions. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Figuring Out Who You Are As An Adult

    Figuring Out Who You Are As An Adult
    Dec 15 2025
    Meghan and Melisa give advice on not getting along with your supervisor and then they delve into how to manage a relationship when your partner struggles to handle emotional conversations. Melisa rants about another incredibly weird spa situation and Meghan wants to know why so many planes are landing on the streets. Plane Video: https://www.tiktok.com/@mcfli_guy/video/7540519401808874765?lang=en Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr
  • He Shushed Me

    He Shushed Me
    Dec 8 2025
    In this week's episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice to a listener struggling to get over fear in the workplace . Then, they settle a sticky listener debate about dealing with a manbaby. They also share an update from a listener who is learning to cope and do things alone, following her husband's death. In personal news, Meghan and Melisa discuss their initial thoughts on seeing the movie musical Wicked: For Good (with more detailed discussion coming Thursday on But Am I Watching!). Melisa recounts her experience seeing Jimmy Kimmel Live with her mother and also getting stuck in an elevator! Finally, Meghan saw Home Alone for the very first time. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • REPLAY: Friend Wanted to Throw A Party Over My Breakup

    REPLAY: Friend Wanted to Throw A Party Over My Breakup
    Dec 1 2025
    Original Air Date: November 20, 2023 Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Update: Friend thinks I’m going to hell because I’m bisexual. Is finishing your degree worth it? Long term boyfriend refuses to think about marriage Getting back with someone that your friends hate Being into your best friend but they aren't into you Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • He's Too White For Her

    He's Too White For Her
    Nov 24 2025
    It's been a wet week in LA! Meghan shares the sweet details of making a birthday cake for her nephew and excitedly installing her new Christmas lights. Meanwhile, Melisa opens up about her frustratingly inconsistent period and all the hectic Thanksgiving preparation for her mother's arrival. A listener asks if they were wrong for discouraging their mother from trying to hook up a teenager with an adult. We tackle a sensitive question from a listener who is dealing with their own and their mother's intense emotions following the death of their father. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    46 mins
  • A 29 Year Old Wants to Date An 18 Year Old

    A 29 Year Old Wants to Date An 18 Year Old
    Nov 17 2025
    This week, we're delving into the drama! A listener has written in with a classic dilemma: She's got a major crush on her much older boss. We also get an update from our caller who was struggling with settling in her current relationship, which takes a some major twist and turns. Plus, catch up on our lives: 😬 Melisa's close call: She ran into some truly creepy old "friends" and lived to tell the tale (thankfully!). 🎂 Party Prep Stress: Meghan is busy getting ready for her nephew's birthday party. 📺 TV Obsession Alert: Melisa's been watching a LOT of TV lately and is officially obsessed with the show Beauty in Black. 🚨 An Alarming Start: Melisa shares the story of an alarming wake-up call that left her rattled. 👋 New Faces: Meghan fills us in on meeting some new neighbors and the awkward (or maybe great?) first impressions. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • My Friend is Part of The Problem

    My Friend is Part of The Problem
    Nov 10 2025
    This week, Meghan and Melisa delve into tough subjects and personal updates. The advice segment addresses a listener struggling with the decision to reach out to a problematic friend, and get an update from the listener whose friend committed a hate crime. On a personal front, Melisa recounts her recent big move and how Meghan stepped up to help when she thought she was being followed. Later, they salivate over People's choice for this year's Sexiest Man Alive and wrap up the episode by breaking down the key Democratic victories from Election Day 2025. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    57 mins
  • The Monkey Has Been Destroyed

    The Monkey Has Been Destroyed
    Nov 3 2025
    Meghan kicks things off by reflecting on her Halloween costume. Melisa follows with a non-announcement. They also laugh over that old viral clip of the Boston cop going down the slide. A listener is struggling to move on from an ex. Another listener has a thief for a boyfriend. Monkey business is afoot. The episode wraps with Melisa’s thoughts on SNAP benefits. GO VOTE IN YOUR LOCAL ELECTION! Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Subscribe to Don’t Blame Me! Apple Spotify Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) DBM Submission Form Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr