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The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

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Summary
 The Sabrina Zohar Show is your no-BS guide to dating, relationships, and coming home to yourself. Hosted by @sabrina.zohar, this podcast dives deep into the realities of modern love, anxious attachment, and the personal growth it takes to build meaningful connections- not just with others, but with yourself. Formerly known as “Do The Work” the show is all about cutting through the noise. Whether you’re navigating dating burnout, relationship struggles, or learning how to stop overthinking every text, Sabrina brings raw, unfiltered conversations that challenge your patterns, shift your mindset, and help you reclaim your power. Because the real work isn’t just about finding the right person, it’s also about becoming the version of you that feels whole, secure, and unapologetically authentic. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and watch on YouTube. A podcast on dating, anxiety, and doing the work to heal with @Sabrina.zohar. Instagram: @thesabrinazoharshow TikTok: @sabrina.zohar Instagram- @thesabrinazoharshow TikTok- @sabrina.zoharSabrina Zohar Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 234: How To Choose Yourself Without Losing People?

    234: How To Choose Yourself Without Losing People?
    Nov 6 2026
    Why do we stay quiet when something hurts? In this episode I get honest about people pleasing, fear of rejection, and the shame that kept me saying yes when I meant no, in dating, friendships, family, and at work. I open up about my childhood, my dad disowning me after I set a boundary, and what speaking up has cost me. We also get into the neuroscience of rejection and why it hurts like physical pain, the difference between shame, guilt, and regret, and why blame is a defense against shame. I also answer your questions on forgiving yourself after a breakup or cheating, letting go of self-blame, and believing you’re “too much.” Then I share my tool of the week, the “actually” sentence, a simple daily practice to stop fawning, set healthy boundaries, and build self-worth one true sentence at a time. If you’ve ever shrunk yourself to keep someone in your life, this episode is for you. Order Sabrina's book,⁠⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠⁠Product of the week! ⁠https://go.shopmy.us/p-101446356Get Ad free ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠⁠ Support the show by supporting our sponsors: Go to https://EmbarkVet.com and use code SABRINA for $10 off the Breed + Health Test Ready to clean out your closet and make some extra money? Download the Vinted app for free and start listing. With no seller fees, you keep every dollar you earn https://www.vinted.com/app Chapters: 00:00 Why You Stay Quiet in Relationships 03:24 How to Say No Without Guilt 06:44 Where Shame Comes From 10:27 Healing Your Inner Child 13:26 The Cost of Speaking Up 17:40 Feeling Like You’re Too Much 20:35 Why Blame Is a Defense Against Shame 25:06 Forgiving Yourself After Hurting Someone 28:21 Shame vs Guilt vs Regret 30:27 How to Stop Fawning: The Actually Tool Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 mins
  • 233: Daddy Issues Are Real. Here’s What They Actually Look Like

    233: Daddy Issues Are Real. Here’s What They Actually Look Like
    Oct 30 2026
    Ever wonder why you keep dating the same type of person, people-please everyone around you, or never feel like enough no matter how much you achieve? It could be a father wound. Licensed psychotherapist Terri Cole, author of Father Wound, joins Sabrina to break down how an absent, emotionally unavailable, or abusive father shapes your self-worth, boundaries, attachment style, and relationships, and why calling it “daddy issues” misses the real worthiness wound underneath. You’ll learn the signs of an unhealed father wound (perfectionism, overgiving, hypervigilance, codependency, chasing avoidant partners and friends), how repetition compulsion keeps you stuck in the same painful relationship patterns, the role a mother plays in co-wounding, and 3 questions to tell when you’re reacting from childhood trauma instead of your adult self. Plus, real steps for healing the father wound, grieving the dad you didn’t get, and finally feeling worth protecting. Order Sabrina's book,⁠⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠⁠Product of the week! ⁠https://amzn.to/4v1eHW⁠jGet Ad free ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠⁠ Support the show by supporting our sponsors: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SABRINA at https://www.oneskin.co/SABRINA #oneskinpod Chapters: 00:00 What Is a Father Wound? 04:48 Signs of an Unhealed Father Wound 10:39 How to Heal a Father Wound 16:37 Mother Wound and Co-Wounding 21:22 Overachieving to Prove Your Worth 26:29 Father Wound in Friendships and Dating 32:31 How Transference Shows Up in Your Life 37:39 Fear of Becoming Your Parent 42:57 Why Avoidants Deserve Empathy 48:09 Feeling Too Much and Not Enough Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    57 mins
  • 232: Why Men Won’t Open Up to Their Partners W/ Tom Stroud

    232: Why Men Won’t Open Up to Their Partners W/ Tom Stroud
    Oct 23 2026
    Love Is Blind UK star ⁠Tom Stroud⁠ sets the record straight on his reality TV villain edit, including why Netflix made him reshoot the altar scene. He shares how therapy after the show led him to build ⁠Shoulder to Shoulder⁠, a men’s community tackling the male loneliness epidemic, and he and Sabrina get honest about men’s mental health, why so many men avoid therapy, and why shaming men for their feelings only pushes them further away.Tom also opens up about his father wound, losing his dad before they could reconcile, and what his relationship has taught him about conflict, anger, and emotional safety. Plus: why men need male friendships, red flags that look like green flags, scheduling sex in a busy relationship, and what women and men need to understand about each other.Come see me on tour! ⁠https://sabrinazohar.com/tour⁠Order Sabrina's book,⁠⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠⁠If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠Product of the week! ⁠https://amzn.to/4v1eHW⁠jGet Ad free ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video.Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠⁠ Support the show by supporting our sponsors: Our listeners get a FREE MONTH of Primal Queen plus FOUR FREE GIFTS at ⁠https://primalqueen.com/SABRINA⁠ Thanks to Strawberry.me for sponsoring this video. Get matched with a professional career coach and get 50%off your first coaching session: ⁠https://www.strawberry.me/sabrina⁠ Chapters: 00:00 Love Is Blind UK Altar Truth 05:28 Reality TV Hate and Mental Health 11:08 Equal Partnership in Relationships 16:00 Fear of Rejection and People Pleasing 21:09 Why Men Won’t Go to Therapy 27:26 Male Loneliness Epidemic Explained 34:22 Father Wound and Unspoken Regret 39:15 Why Men Hide Their Emotions 43:19 How to Make Men Feel Emotionally Safe 48:59 Red Flags That Look Like Green Flags Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    55 mins
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I love this podcast, I have listened to all of it. At first I found it quite confronting then learnt more and more about myself through it as I listened on. I've gone back and listened to some episodes again to help me with getting in the right headspace for dating and regulating my nervous system.

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