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Divorce with Carolyn

Divorce with Carolyn

By: Carolyn Tate
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Divorce with Carolyn is real talk for women about the hard parts of divorce and the beautiful life waiting on the other side. I've been through two divorces, spent years coaching women inside Women's Divorce Academy, and I'm here to be the divorce bestie you didn't know you needed — straight with you, cheering you on, and always bringing you back to what matters.

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Episodes
  • From betrayal to her best life: How Alyssa turned heartbreak into happiness
    Apr 27 2026

    Alyssa thought she'd married the love of her life. What she didn't know was that her husband had been deceiving her in almost every way imaginable - an affair, gambling debts, drug use, and lies that unravelled her entire sense of reality. When he told Alyssa he wanted a divorce, she was completely blindsided.

    What followed was one of the hardest seasons of her life. Severe anxiety and depression. Months of barely functioning. And the slow, painful work of rebuilding herself from the ground up.

    In this episode, Alyssa shares the real story of how she got through it - the therapy, the medication, the army of support, the comfort TV, and the one decision that changed everything. She talks about solo travel as a path to rediscovering herself, what she learned about trust and red flags when she started dating again, and how she went on to double her salary, remarry a genuinely kind man, and build a life she never could have imagined.

    This is the episode to share with a friend who has just been blindsided. It's honest, it's warm, and it's living proof that the other side exists - and it's even better than you might have hoped.


    Links Mentioned

    - G Adventures (group travel for solo travellers): gadventures.com

    - Wi-Fi Tribe (remote work travel community): wifitribe.co


    If You Need Mental Health Support Through A Tough Time Don't Hesitate To Contact:

    - Beyond Blue - Anxiety and Depression Support (Australia): beyondblue.org.au

    - Lifeline Australia (24/7 crisis support): lifeline.org.au


    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    47 mins
  • What Divorce Really Does To Kids: A Candid Conversation With My Son, Connor
    Apr 20 2026

    In this special episode, Carolyn is joined by her 21-year-old son Connor for an honest, warm, and sometimes confronting conversation about what it's really like to grow up through parental separation. Connor experienced two of Carolyn's separations – at age two and age twelve – and shares what helped, what didn't, and what he wishes had been done differently. An important listen for any parent worried about what divorce is doing to their children.


    Key Takeaways

    • Divorce is not inherently damaging – but children are far more perceptive than parents often realise. They can feel tension and unhappiness even without words for it.
    • What children absorb from the relationship they witness matters. The dynamics they grow up around quietly shape their own relationship patterns.
    • Consistency and communication – within your own home, and with your children – are the two most important factors in helping children through separation.
    • Parallel parenting is a valid and supported option when co-parenting communication is difficult. Keeping an open channel with your children is what matters most.
    • Listening to your children – even when it's uncomfortable – is more important than keeping up appearances of neutrality. They need to feel they aren't alone in their feelings.


    Links and Resources Mentioned

    • Women's Divorce Academy membership: https://www.womensdivorceacademy.com/our-program
    • Kids Helpline: kidshelp.com.au
    • Raising Children Network: raisingchildren.net.au
    • Australian Psychological Society — Find a Psychologist: psychology.org.au/find-a-psychologist
    • Relationships Australia: relationships.org.au

    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    30 mins
  • Follow the money: What a forensic accountant wants every divorcing woman to know
    Apr 13 2026

    Ever stared at a pile of financial documents and felt completely out of your depth? Me too – but Julie Garis is here to help. Julie is a forensic accountant who specialises in helping women navigate the financial side of separation and property settlement. Julie has been through divorce herself – and she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to everything she does.

    We cover what she actually does (and how it's different from what your lawyer does), the financial red flags to watch for, what to do if you suspect your ex isn't disclosing everything, and why 'fair' might not be the right thing to aim for – and what question to ask instead.

    Key takeaways

    • The earlier you get organised, the better. Arriving at your lawyer's office prepared (with a relationship timeline, asset list, and key financial documents) can save you significant legal fees.
    • Business structures, crypto, undisclosed accounts and gambling are among the most common financial issues she encounters - and she shares what to do in those circumstances.
    • 'Fair' is rarely how property settlement feels for either party. The better question is: can I live with this outcome?
    • Financial clarity after settlement can be life-changing – many women discover their own competence with money for the first time.


    Resources mentioned

    • Julies' free First Steps: Financial Settlement Preparation checklist – https://www.simplesplitfinancials.com.au/checklist
    • Naomi Holmes – women's financial literacy – listen to our podcast with Naomi in episode 1
    • Women's Divorce Academy membership – womensdivorceacademy.com

    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    48 mins
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