Episodes

  • 19,334 Coaching Calls Later
    Jul 11 2025

    From TikTok tools to nostalgic toys, this episode is full of unfiltered DTH chaos—and the powerful milestones hiding underneath it all. Cyd and David kick things off by reviewing the internet’s latest viral obsession (yes, it involves silky bangs and plastic gremlins). But in between the laughs, they drop a major stat: over 19,000 coaching calls and 36 salons launched in 12 years of Destroy The Hairdresser.
    They reflect on the wild ride, the evolution of coaching, and the reason more voices in the industry matter now more than ever.
    Plus, they spill the tea on DTH+, the real cost of “cheap” education, and why building a community that vibes with your values beats going viral.
    A little greasy, a little genius, and full of hot takes—this one’s for the real ones. 💣

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    21 mins
  • The grief of success
    Jul 3 2025

    Everyone talks about the hustle, the climb, the breakthrough. But no one talks about what happens after you “make it.”
    In this episode, we unpack the unexpected emotions that come with success—grief, guilt, loneliness, fear of losing it all—and why hitting your goals can feel... heavy.
    From saying goodbye to old versions of yourself to outgrowing relationships, we’re breaking down the shadow side of growth and giving you the tools to feel your feelings without sabotaging your future.
    Spoiler: Just because you’re winning doesn’t mean you have to be okay.
    💣 Listen now and give yourself permission to grieve while you grow.

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    22 mins
  • Debt Isn’t the Enemy, Shame Is
    Jun 26 2025

    Let’s talk money, shame, and why debt isn’t the dirty word the boomers made it out to be. In this refreshingly honest episode, Cyd and David get real about personal and business debt—how they manage it, why it doesn’t mean you’re failing, and how smart investments (yes, even on a credit card) can actually build your wealth. Whether you’re carrying $500 or $50k, this episode will shift your mindset, strip away the guilt, and make you want to log into your bank account with less fear and more power.Because in this industry? Debt isn’t a red flag—it’s a tool.And it's time we stopped pretending otherwise.


    Need salon business support? Book a free coaching call https://www.destroythehairdresser.com

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    20 mins
  • Booked, Bothered, & Burnt Out by the Algorithm
    Jun 19 2025

    Is your Instagram aesthetic on point but your books still empty? In this solo episode, Cyd pulls back the velvet curtain on the content circus and teaches you how to stop performing and start converting. With hard-earned wisdom, real strategies from the Social Circus course, and five actionable ways to build your books using social media—this episode is your wake-up call. Spoiler: You don’t need to go viral to get paid. You need a system. You need clarity. And you need to stop posting for other stylists.

    If you’re over the burnout, the algorithm anxiety, and the content clownery—this one’s for you.

    💻 Join the pre-show at https://www.destroythehairdresser.com/Preshow

    and get your ticket to the Social Circus.

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    22 mins
  • The Toxic High of Overworking
    Jun 12 2025

    In this punchy and painfully honest episode, Cyd and David call out one of the most addictive drugs in the salon industry: overworking. From idolizing burnout to using busyness as a badge of honor, they unpack how overworking gives salon owners and stylists a temporary high and a long-term crash. This isn’t about productivity it’s about control, validation, and fear. Whether you’re addicted to the hustle or just can’t figure out how to stop, this episode is your intervention.


    Need salon business support? Book a free coaching call https://www.destroythehairdresser.com

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    31 mins
  • Glitter, Gays & Gaslighting
    Jun 5 2025

    In this powerful and unfiltered episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, Cyd and David unpack the glamorization of queer stylists in the salon industry—and the exploitation that often hides underneath. From being celebrated for their “fabulous energy” to being overlooked for leadership and pay raises, queer hairdressers are too often stuck in a glitter-covered box. This episode explores the emotional labor queer stylists are expected to perform, the culture of tokenism disguised as inclusivity, and how to reclaim queer power in business. It’s time to stop clapping and start cutting checks.

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    33 mins
  • Hybrids, Headaches, and Hair Drama
    May 29 2025

    A listener drops the tea on a messy rental salon situation: rent hikes, commission assistants in a booth rental space, unclear policies, and a salon owner watching everyone on motion-sensor cameras. Cyd and David unpack why hybrid models get chaotic fast, how leadership confusion breeds distrust, and why booth renters need to understand they’re glorified tenants—not team members. Oh, and if you’re scared of salon cameras? You might just be scared of getting caught. 👀

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    16 mins
  • Raising Prices Isn’t a Crime But You Acting Like It Should Be
    May 22 2025

    A stylist is booked out for six months, making great money, and still refuses to raise their prices. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down why being fully booked isn’t the goal—it’s a trap. Cyd and David tackle the emotional, spiritual, and strategic reasons stylists resist raising prices, and why doing it when things are good is the real power move. From guilt to burnout to hostage scheduling, this one’s a crash course in critical thinking, conscious leadership, and why that six-month waitlist might be a red flag—not a flex.

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    18 mins