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Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

By: Heather Tingle
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In this podcast, Heather will teach you what really works, and what doesn't, to successfully declutter your home - as when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic, it isn't just a case of hiring a skip and having a big sort out - it's not that easy!

Heather is an expert in working with families that live in chaos, and all the challenges that brings. She is Autistic and has ADHD so knows all about how neurodiversity links to clutter. As a naturally messy person herself, she can show you how to live in a clean, clutter free and organised home regardless of the issues you face. She thrives on creating strategies and systems that work for real families. Transforming your cluttered homes to calm, safe spaces can also improve your mental, physical and financial health, learn all about it in this podcast.

Heather Tingle has been a member of The Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers since 2016. She and her family have had hoarding tendencies, living in messy homes, stuck in that never ending, exhausting cycle of chores and tidying. She decluttered her home and found a new, calmer and more content way to live. She now supports clients in person and online to achieve the same outcome in their own homes - and now you can learn how she does it through this podcast too!

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Episodes
  • 121 - Decluttering Keys: Clarity and safety
    Feb 13 2026

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the often-overlooked emotional and practical challenges of decluttering old keys. She explores the psychological burden these keys can represent, including feelings of responsibility and fear of regret. Heather provides practical steps for organising and deciding what to keep or let go, emphasising the importance of clarity and intentionality in the decluttering process.

    Chapters

    00:00
    The Burden of Unused Keys

    02:43
    Understanding the Emotional Weight of Keys

    05:39
    Practical Steps to Declutter Keys

    08:33
    Deciding What to Keep and Let Go

    11:51
    Finding Security Through Clarity



    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

    Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    13 mins
  • 120 - The 10-Minute a day decluttering myth (Especially for Neurodivergent brains)
    Feb 6 2026

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores why the common advice to “just do ten minutes a day” often doesn’t work for people with ADHD and other neurodivergent brains. She explains how this approach relies heavily on daily consistency, stable energy levels, and motivation, which can make decluttering feel harder rather than easier for many listeners.

    Heather discusses how ND and ADHD brains tend to work in bursts, why unfinished tasks are particularly draining, and how open-ended plans can create ongoing feelings of failure. She introduces a key reframe that consistency is not the goal, and that completion and closure are far more important for making progress.

    The episode encourages listeners to move away from guilt-driven decluttering advice and towards bite-sized, flexible plans that allow for rest, variable energy, and clear end points. The focus is on creating systems that work with real life, rather than against it.


    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to “Ten Minutes a Day” Advice

    02:18
    Why Daily Consistency Is Hard for ADHD Brains

    05:01
    Boredom, Energy Fluctuations, and Unfinished Tasks

    07:12
    Completion Over Consistency

    09:05
    Creating Flexible, Bite-Sized Decluttering Plans

    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

    Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    13 mins
  • 119 - Why traditional decluttering methods don't work for ADHD brains
    Jan 30 2026

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges faced by individuals with ADHD and neurodivergent brains when using traditional decluttering methods. She emphasises that these methods often fail because they are based on assumptions that do not align with the realities of neurodivergent individuals. Heather critiques popular methods like the coat hanger method, explaining why they can be ineffective and how decluttering should focus on visibility and immediate feedback rather than memory. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their unique needs and find systems that work for them, rather than feeling inadequate for not adhering to conventional methods.

    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Decluttering Challenges

    02:40
    Why Traditional Methods Fail ADHD Brains

    06:47
    The Coat Hanger Method: A Case Study

    10:04
    Embracing Your Unique Decluttering Journey


    Support the show

    If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

    Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    12 mins
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I love the approach of these podcasts, the practical strategies and innate understanding of her audience's needs and the way we think. Do yourself a favour and listen to Heather, no sugar coating or artificial hype, just down to earth assessments of what is achievable and with doable strategies...
she's the real deal, gently honest and clever strategies that rally help.

Most compassionate with Best strategies for decluttering l have ever heard

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