• DOD221: F*** Around and Find Out Parenting
    Aug 15 2025

    Tom kicks the show off with a pretty major sleep update that no one saw coming! Then, the dads chat about a parenting style that has been dubbed "F*** Around and Find Out" (FAFO) parenting. What makes this style unique, or is this just a rebranding of another approach? What kind of crazy hot take is Eli going to come in with this time?

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    39 mins
  • DOD220: Are You Mad at Me?
    Aug 8 2025

    The dads reflect on insecurity in relationships through their formative years and the impact it has had on future romantic relationships, friendships, and others. How do you navigate relationships in a healthy way, and break those internal expectations, if you grew up always wondering if your parents were mad at you, or if they'll be there to support you when you've made a mistake?

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    45 mins
  • DOD219: Should We Let Our Kids Hang Out With the Older Kids?
    Aug 1 2025

    Tom's got a kid kunundrum to talk about. What if our kids want to hang out with their older sibling's friend group? Is that totally cool or just an opportunity for trouble?

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    45 mins
  • DOD218: A Mathematical Formula for Mom's Libido?
    Jul 25 2025

    This episode has two of the wildest takes two of the Dads have ever heard from the third. About what, you ask? You may have seen a viral "libido equation" make its rounds on the internet, explaining how new moms might evaluate if they're up for engaging in sexual activities with their partner. The dudes break it all down, and I really don't want to say much else and potentially spoil any piece of this. Here we go!

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    59 mins
  • DOD217: Meet My AI Girlfriend
    Jul 24 2025

    After a discussion about simulation theory for some reason, Tom talks about having listened to a podcast about people falling in love with AI bots. What's the deal there? Is that a real relationship? Is the AI coming for our kids?

    Then for patrons only, instead of a parenting story, the dads discuss whether or not having an AI girlfriend would be cheating.

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    46 mins
  • DOD216: What if Mental Illness Is Making You a Bad Parent?
    Jul 18 2025

    Buckle up and secure those tray tables in the upright and locked position. We get the Plane-ageddon scoop from Eli to kick off today's episode, and then the dads dig into an email from a listener struggling with balancing their mental health treatment and showing up as a parent in the way they expect. And then, how can we embrace the understanding that parenting will always inherently be imperfect and alleviate the guilt we carry when we aren't the kind of parent we've decided we should be?

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    43 mins
  • DOD215: What If Your Partner Won't Enable Location Sharing
    Jul 17 2025

    After an extended introduction exploring at what age kids should be allowed unsupervised time in crowded locations and some of the tools that might help ease parent anxiety in those scenarios, the dads shift focus to discuss the act of location sharing with significant others. Is there ever a reason to not do that? I mean, that isn't cheating?

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    44 mins
  • DOD214: Just Trying to Help
    Jul 11 2025

    On this episode, the dads tackle a complicated listener quandary...so complicated in fact that Thomas can't keep the people or their relationships straight. What do we owe our parents and other adults in our lives to help them navigate challenging situations with our brothers and sisters?

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    47 mins