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Dating in a High-Friction World: Why Safety, Algorithms, and Burnout Are Redefining Intimacy

Dating in a High-Friction World: Why Safety, Algorithms, and Burnout Are Redefining Intimacy

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In this episode, we go inside the new architecture of desire: where safety, cost, and algorithms shape everything from who asks first to who ever meets at all. Drawing from crime data, psychology, and platform economics, Dating in a High-Friction World unpacks why intimacy feels more distant in an age of infinite access.


We break down:


• The gap between real and perceived danger in dating culture—and why women still shoulder the “safety tax.”

  • How rising prices and shrinking trust changed first-date formats.


  • The app economy’s hidden incentives—why the swipe never ends and burnout feels built in.


  • The manosphere’s quiet influence on male empathy, confidence, and consent.


  • Parasocial intimacy and the AI “girlfriend” effect replacing real connection.


  • Practical, evidence-backed practices to rebuild trust, warmth, and embodied confidence in a risk-obsessed era.


This isn’t a takedown, it's a roadmap. For everyone who’s ever asked why love feels harder, this episode explains the system and gives you tools to beat it.

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