Episode Summary:

In this episode, Sade Curry kicks off a new series on what it means to live a relationship-centered life—and why that might be the thing keeping you stuck. You’ll hear Sade unpack the social conditioning that trains women to prioritize everyone else first: partners, kids, bosses, siblings, even exes.

Sade breaks down why simply saying “decenter men” isn’t enough—because the issue runs deeper. Women are conditioned to center relationships, period. That’s why even after divorce, you might still feel pulled in every direction and unable to start the business, write the book, or just book your doctor’s appointment.

This episode gives language to what you may have been feeling: that you’ve been pouring out for others while putting yourself last. Sade shares stories from her own life and coaching practice to show how shifting your focus—centering yourself—is the first step to real freedom and clarity.

You don’t have to blow up your life to change it. You can make grounded, intentional shifts toward the life you want.

Ready to stop putting yourself last?
Let’s talk. Book a free consultation call with Sade Curry and explore how private coaching can help you reclaim your time, focus on your goals, and create the life you want—without losing the people you love.

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Welcome back! Sade returns after settling into Miami city life to share a powerful observation from her coaching practice: mental clutter drains your energy and blocks your goals—especially your dating life.

You might think romantic relationships cause most of your mental overwhelm. But Sade reveals the truth: women carry exhausting thought loops about everyone—parents, bosses, children, friends, even strangers in the grocery store. This hyper-awareness of other people's comfort steals your time, focus, and energy.

Sade shares real client stories: One woman spent nine hours each workday in a panicked rush, worried she wouldn't finish on time to make her dates. The rushing changed nothing—she left on time 50% of the time regardless. Another client obsessed over her husband's betrayal, unable to handle finances or make plans.

The solution? Identify your mental clutter. Notice what occupies your mind all day. Recognize how these thought loops drain you and prevent action on goals you care about.

This is the deeper coaching work Sade does—not just helping you meet a partner, but clearing the obstacles that stop you from doing what you know you should do. Your brain, personality, and situation are unique. Generic "ten-step plans" don't work because they ignore your specific barriers.

Ready to clear your mental clutter and achieve your dating goals? Schedule a complimentary consultation call with Sade before November 25th. Visit sadecurry.com/info or reply to any email.

Discovering the Best Version of Yourself After Divorce with Bee Quammie

Ready to meet the woman you become after divorce? This episode will change how you see yourself and your future.

Bee Quammie, multimedia storyteller and author of The Book of Possibilities, joins host Sade Curry to share raw truths about rebuilding after divorce.

Bee is a Jamaican-Canadian multimedia storyteller: a writer, podcast host, TV personality, and public speaker. She’s written for publications like The Globe and Mail, Men's Health, Chatelaine, Refinery29, Essence, and more. Bee is a guest host and commentator on several Canadian television and radio shows, like CTV's The Social and CBC’s The Next Chapter.

She’s also a highly sought-after public speaker with the National Speakers Bureau, offering keynotes across North America. She writes and speaks on topics like race and culture, parenting, mental health, and pop culture — and her debut book, an essay collection called The Book of Possibilities, was published by Penguin Canada in 2025. Bee lives in the Greater Toronto Area with her two daughters.

Bee breaks down the difference between being married, going through divorce, and thriving as a single woman - and why she loves the version of herself she is now most of all.

What You'll Discover:

• Why "know the version of you that you like best" changes everything about dating
• How to tell the difference between loneliness and being alone (they're not the same thing)
• The surprising way to reconnect with pleasure through your five senses
• Why nice guys aren't always the answer - and what to look for instead
• How to set boundaries that men actually respect
• The secret to celebrating small wins on your path to thriving

Bee shares her honest journey from losing herself in marriage to discovering self-love that creates armor against outside noise. She talks about solo trips to Curacao, learning to laugh at her own jokes, and why she approaches dating as fun rather than a job interview.

This conversation tackles the shame around divorce, the pressure women face to follow scripts that don't serve them, and why breaking those narratives leads to better relationships with yourself and others.

If you're ready to stop waiting for someone else to validate who you are and start loving the woman you're becoming, this episode is your wake-up call.

Connect with Bee Quammie:

• Website: beequammie.com
• Social Media: @beequammie (all platforms)
• Book: The Book of Possibilities (Penguin Canada, 2025)

Ready to create your own dating strategy that honors who you're becoming? Schedule your free dating consultation call with Sade and start building the love life you deserve - one that fits the incredible woman you are today.