Sol and Louise reflect on their podcast journey, discussing the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of community support, and the valuable insights shared by their podcast guests. They highlight key episodes that resonated with listeners, emphasizing the need for child-centric approaches in high-conflict situations. The conversation also touches on future plans for the podcast.

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EPISODES MENTIONED IN THIS RECAP:

In Episode 1, narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula validates the painful reality that co-parenting with an antagonistic personality often is.

In Episode 3, attorney Ron Gore gives us tools to effectively navigate the legal system as a coparent.

In Episode 8, codependency expert Erika Wright shares her unique take on codepency and provides a roadmap to overcoming it and being the best parent you can be.

In Episode 11, attorney Tamara Rowles gives advice on how to cope and find the growth that comes with difficult experiences like divorce.

In Episode 12, narcissism expert Wendy Behary explains the underpinnings of narcissism and how to properly navigate dealing with one.

In Episode 16, high conflict experts Chris & Lisa share their techniques on strategic communication and self-representation in court.

In Episode 17, conscious uncoupling coach Greg Wheeler, shares his insights on a helpful technique to move on from the past and step into your future.

In Episode 18, author Stephanie McPhail shares her harrowing story of physical abuse to illustrate the importance of boundaries.

In Episode 20, attorney Elise Buie warns against hiring "bulldog" attorneys who throw "hand grenades" into families, escalating conflict and costs unnecessarily.

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In this conversation, Dr. Karalynn Royster discusses her journey into the field of co-parenting and high-conflict divorce, emphasizing the importance of supporting both parents and children through these challenging dynamics. She delves into the concept of gaslighting, its implications in co-parenting, and how parents can recognize and address it. Dr. Royster highlights the significance of emotional validation, self-regulation, and the impact of parental behavior on children's well-being. The discussion also touches on the pressures of perfection in parenting and the importance of seeking support during difficult times.

Learn more about Dr. Karalynn Royster at: https://learnwithlittlehouse.com/
Listen to Dr. Royster's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kids-first-co-parenting-with-dr-royster/id1828016840

Books mentioned in the episode:
Don’t Alienate the Kids! by Bill Eddy: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09QRMGVVT
Been There Got Out by Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CY39L1W7

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Keywords

co-parenting, gaslighting, high-conflict divorce, child psychology, emotional validation, parenting strategies, child development

Takeaways

• Dr. Royster's journey into co-parenting support was influenced by her own childhood experiences.
• Gaslighting undermines a child's reality and can occur even unintentionally by well-meaning parents.
• Validation of a child's feelings is crucial in helping them navigate their emotions.
• Co-parents should focus on what they can control, especially their own behavior and responses.
• Children often need help understanding their emotions and cues from their bodies.
• Modeling self-regulation as a parent can significantly impact a child's emotional development.
• It's important for parents to avoid putting children in the middle of conflicts between co-parents.
• The pressure to be a perfect parent can be overwhelming and is unrealistic.
• Children may show signs of struggle through changes in behavior, intensity, or frequency of emotional outbursts.
• Seeking support and not feeling isolated is vital for parents in high-conflict situations.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Challenges

01:26 The Journey into Supporting Co-Parents

04:56 Understanding Gaslighting in Parenting

09:31 Gaslighting Dynamics in Co-Parenting

12:03 Recognizing Alienation in Children

16:09 Navigating Loyalty Binds in Co-Parenting

20:11 Navigating Co-Parenting Dynamics

21:08 Emotional Development in Children

23:18 The Gifts of Co-Parenting

25:45 The Myth of Perfection in Parenting

26:56 Recognizing Signs of Struggle in Children

28:57 Self-Regulation Strategies for Children

30:43 Responding to Children's Concerns

32:51 Empowerment in Co-Parenting

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In this conversation, David Pisarra, Esq. discusses the challenges fathers face in family law, particularly in child custody cases. He shares insights from his experience in family law, emphasizing the importance of effective communication, emotional support, and self-representation. David highlights the need for fathers to advocate for themselves in court and provides practical advice on how to navigate the complexities of family law, including dealing with parental alienation and the benefits of support groups. He also discusses the role of technology, such as AI, in managing co-parenting communication and the importance of maintaining a strong relationship with children during and after divorce.

Learn more about David Pissara at: https://www.unionofdads.com/

Get David's book, Dad's Child Custody Action Plan: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F5NPX97Z

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Keywords

family law, co-parenting, child custody, men's rights, parental alienation, family court, emotional support, self-representation, dad's law school, communication strategies

Takeaways

• Dad's Law School was born out of a need for better representation for fathers.
• Dads often enter court unprepared, lacking the necessary information about their children.
• Emotional support is crucial for fathers going through divorce.
• Vulnerability can be weaponized against men in relationships, making them hesitant to open up.
• Self-representation can save costs and empower fathers in court.
• Dads need to gather evidence and present it effectively in court.
• Anger can be detrimental in family court; calmness is key.
• Specificity in communication and court orders is essential for success.
• Parental alienation tactics can be complex and require a strong support system.
• Maintaining a detailed record of parenting activities can strengthen a father's case.

Sound Bites

• "Dads need that emotional support."
• "You cannot be too specific."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dad's Law School

02:26 The Evolution of Family Law Practice

04:13 Challenges Faced by Fathers in Court

05:44 The Importance of Support Networks for Dads

08:13 Vulnerability and Emotional Support

10:02 Advocating for Self-Representation

12:08 Common Mistakes in Court

13:39 Navigating Communication with Ex-Partners

15:21 Utilizing Technology for Better Communication

18:09 Understanding Parallel Parenting

19:59 Addressing Parental Alienation

23:37 Demonstrating Stability in Court

25:30 Final Words of Encouragement

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