What a heartwarming conversation with my dear friend Thérèse Cator.

In this episode, Thérèse and I discuss the effects of assimilation on our bodies, healing, identity, and more. We also discuss how healing can emerge when we are in spaces where we can be in our full humanity and don't have to be in a state of hypervigilance.

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Thérèse Cator is the founder of Embodied Black Girl, a global community that centers the healing and liberation of Black women and femmes and communities of color. She’s also a mother, a Decolonial Leadership Mentor, a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, an anti-oppression facilitator, an artist and a medicine keeper from a deep lineage of scholars, medicine people and revolutionaries from Ayiti.

Thérèse's work has been featured multiple times in both Forbes and Mashable, as well as Essence, Travel Noire, Jezebel, Authority Magazine, Mind Body Green, Motherly, and Yahoo News, among others.

Over the past 15 years, she's worked with people from all backgrounds, and her work explores the intersection of spirituality, somatics and social change. Thérèse's work exists in the world to provide deep counsel and guidance to cultural shapers to heal intergenerationally, unearth their deepest expression of embodied leadership and birth revolutionary work and worlds.

You can learn more at: www.embodiedblackgirl.com and www.theresecator.com and find her on IG @theresecator

In this episode, Kimen and I share how we met and the challenges we have encountered in our 18-year relationship. We talk about the importance of doing our own healing work so we can show up for each other and not repeat our parents' unhealthy marriages. We also share the non-negotiables in our marriage.

As always, advice from Your Chinese Auntie, Yiyi, is at the end of the episode.

Give up everything you think you know about relationships, and listen to your partner.

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My guest today is my dear friend, Lara Therrien Boulos. I met Lara through our dear friend Carmen Spagnola, as we were both Questers and Carmen's students. This episode discusses Lara's trip to Egypt, capitalism, Quest and the Return, and self-initiation. We talk about how the pandemic is like an initiation and that we are now in the Return. It will all make sense when you listen to this episode.

At the end of the episode, I discuss self-initiation and, yes, as always, advice from your Chinese Auntie.

For those of you who are curious, The Numinious Quest was a self-guided solo wilderness retreat.

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