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Confronting the Nafs: Overcoming the Commanding Self - December 3, 1998

Confronting the Nafs: Overcoming the Commanding Self - December 3, 1998

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Join Brother Idris and the host for a heartfelt session on the nature of the nafs (the commanding self), spiritual purification (tazkiyah), and practical ways to reclaim inner freedom. The episode explores the Quranic warning that the nafs often urges us toward wrongdoing and explains how the mind and body differ from the timeless ruh (soul). Through accessible metaphors — beads on a string, the witness to the mind, and the monkey-and-jar parable — the speaker clarifies how attachment and identification with roles, possessions and memories empower the nafs and produce suffering.

Listeners will hear real-life examples and relatable anecdotes, from the tragedy of addiction to the surgeon who continued to smoke, to stories of saints and spiritual interventions that illustrate surrender, tawbah and the power of seeking guidance. The talk includes reflections on will versus command in Divine decree, the importance of obeying the Messenger ﷺ , and the central role of zikr (remembrance of Allah) and the company of the pious in weakening the nafs’s grip.

The episode also previews communal observances: guidance about Salat al-Khair and recommended practices for the 15th night of Shaʻban (Shab-i-Barat), including performing night prayer, dhikr and reciting Surah al-Ikhlas. Practical pointers are offered on how to prioritize amal (righteous action) over mere knowledge, how to respond to life’s tests without panic, and how to make room for spiritual growth by letting go of attachments.

Expect spiritual counsel, Qur’anic references, hadith reminders, uplifting stories of saints and seekers, and an invitation to join collective worship and zikr. This episode is aimed at listeners seeking inward transformation: those struggling with compulsions or attachments, and anyone wanting guidance on cultivating presence, surrender and steady practice in the path of tazkiyah.

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