In this encore episode, I'm diving into one of the most essential skills I've had to develop in my own co-parenting journey: setting boundaries. So many of us were raised to prioritize keeping the peace and making others comfortable, even at the expense of our own emotional wellbeing. Over time, that leads to resentment, burnout, and feeling like a doormat. Today, I talk about how I learned to recognize those patterns in myself and how boundaries became a loving, empowering tool rather than something harsh or defensive.

I walk through the difference between internal and external boundaries, why avoiding conflict only makes things worse, and how boundaries actually help us stay present, authentic, and grounded in our lives. I also share real examples of what boundary-setting sounds like, why it feels uncomfortable at first, and how enforcing those boundaries creates greater emotional clarity and safety.

By the end of this episode, you'll have practical starting points to recognize resentment, understand what it's trying to tell you, and take the first steps toward healthier communication and co-parenting.

Takeaways:

• How people-pleasing leads to self-abandonment
• The difference between internal and external boundaries
• Examples of clear, loving boundaries you can use today
• Why boundaries reduce resentment and increase clarity

If you're ready for more support, reach out for a clarity call. I'd love to help you create the boundaries you need to move forward with confidence. https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call

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© 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching

In this encore episode, I'm diving into the real differences between positive thinking and toxic positivity, and why learning to embrace the full spectrum of emotions is essential for co-parenting with clarity, compassion, and confidence. So many of us have been told to "look on the bright side," "stay positive," or "just get over it," especially after divorce. But none of that helps us heal. In fact, it often makes the hard moments feel even heavier.

I share how I approach positive alignment in my own life and with my clients—rooted not in denial or forced optimism, but in deep self-compassion, emotional awareness, and acceptance of the as-is. I talk about why negative emotions matter, how resisting them creates more suffering, and how allowing them actually restores our strength. You'll hear my personal reflections on grief, resilience, and the 50/50 nature of life, as well as three powerful tools to help you build a positive mindset without bypassing your real experiences.

Takeaways:

• Why "just think positive" can actually create harm
• How accepting the as-is builds true confidence
• Why allowing negative feelings increases emotional strength
• Three tools to cultivate grounded, healthy positivity

If this episode resonates, I'd love to hear from you. Reach out anytime and let me know what landed for you.

You're not alone. And you don't have to figure it out on your own. If you're ready to build a foundation that can't be shaken—reach out. Let's talk.
https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call

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© 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching

Five years ago, I started meditating simply to quiet my mind. What I didn't realize was that I was building something much deeper — a daily conversation with the divine, a foundation of self-trust, and a regulated nervous system grounded in the present moment.

In this episode, I share what five years of consistent practice have taught me: how stillness strengthens us to meet life as it comes, how repetition heals our systems from the inside out, and how the simple act of showing up — every single day — transforms who we are.

The biggest lesson? Whatever we focus on is what we practice… and what we practice, we get better at. Meditation has become the training ground for how I now live — more grounded, more flexible, and more connected to myself and the world around me.

Tune in and explore what your own stillness might be teaching you.

If this resonates…

You're not alone. And you don't have to figure it out on your own. If you're ready to build a foundation that can't be shaken—reach out. Let's talk.
https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call

Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might need a fresh perspective on co-parenting!

For more information go to my website here: https://mikkigardner.com/podcast/

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© 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching