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Closure is a Lie: You Don't Need It To Heal | Ep. 17

Closure is a Lie: You Don't Need It To Heal | Ep. 17

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For a long time, I thought I needed closure to move on. I thought I needed that one final conversation, the apology, the explanation, the moment that would tie it all together and make it make sense.

But what I’ve learned is that closure doesn’t always come. And even when it does… it doesn’t always heal.

In this episode, I’m sharing the hard truths about closure—the ways we chase it, the reasons we cling to it, and the power we give away while waiting for it. Whether it’s a relationship, a friendship, or something you’ve been holding onto for years, I want to help you see that healing is still possible… even without a final word.

We’ll talk about:

  • Why closure is more about us than the other person
  • The difference between closure and clarity
  • And why your healing doesn’t have to wait for someone else’s words and/or actions


If you’ve ever felt stuck in the in-between—hoping for something that may never come—this episode is for you.

What if you’re not stuck because of what they didn’t say…
but because you haven’t stopped hoping they will?


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