• Death and Deathrock
    Jun 2 2025

    Photo of Missy by: Roberto Badillo Photography

    We chat with Missy and Ryan of Obsidian about the lack of deathrock in the goth scene, their personal experiences with death, and what it means to live a meaningful life.

    Mental Crises Support

    Sponsers:
    Amulet
    Mentallo and the Fixer

    If you enjoy the podcast please support us on Patreon.

    Intro 00:00

    Amulet's New Single 2:50

    Mentallo and the Fixer 3:15

    Getting into Goth 3:45

    Deathrock and Music Production 11:40

    Dealing with Death 33:20

    Depression and Suicide 1:02:30

    Post Show Musings 2:08:10

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    2 hrs and 56 mins
  • Dark Sanctuary: A Home for the Socially Homeless
    May 19 2025

    On this episode we are discussing the recently released documentary 'Dark Sanctuary: The Story of the Church'. We chat up Timothy Stevens and DJ Joe Virus about the importance of a home for the socially outcast, explore the musical history of The Church, and listen to stories of love and loss.

    Sponsers:
    Assemblage 23
    Witchhands
    Mentallo and the Fixer

    If you enjoy the podcast, please Support us on Patreon

    Intro 00:00

    Assemblage 23 1:57

    Getting into Goth 3:30

    Death 10:57

    Music 31:00

    Witchhands

    Enter Without Prejudice 1:09:17

    Goodbye's 1:34:50

    Mentallo and the Fixer 1:44:30

    Upcoming 1:45:00

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    1 hr and 47 mins
  • Goth's Phantasmagoria: It's About Community
    May 2 2025

    Phantasmagoria, noun
    a bizarre or fantastic combination, collection, or assemblage

    On this episode we chat with Sondra about the connections between the Metal and Goth subculture, why the internet is so upset about ‘fake goth girls’ making only fans content, practical goth fashion, how meaning emerges from community and more!

    If you enjoy the show, please support us on patreon!

    Intro: 00:00

    WitchHands 2:15

    Metal and Goth 5:45

    Salem 21:00

    Thrifting and Practical Fashion 39:45

    Fetishizing Goth 1:00:00

    Community 1:18:00

    Feedback 1:31:00

    Sinister Suggestions 1:50:30

    References:
    -Open Casket
    -Foxblood
    -TommyVowles
    -Die With Your Boots On
    -Ossuary of Salem
    -Midnight Hour
    -Mode Brutal
    -Junkyard Bat
    -Bone and Busk
    -Luciferotica
    -Dark Angel Co
    -Shrine
    -Ipso Facto
    -Dark Garden
    -Blackmoon Castle
    -Never Trust the Algorithm
    -We Have a Technical
    -The Harm of Fast Fashion
    -More Harm from Fast Fashion
    -Feminists for Sex Workers
    -Art of Inconvenience
    -Political Significance of Inconvenience
    -The Epidemic of Escapism

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    2 hrs and 8 mins
  • Intermission
    Apr 2 2025

    For those who don't know, due to unemployment and disability my family and are are forced to move out of our home. The process has been incredibly stressful and has kept me from being able to put together an episode this month.

    In liue of an episode this month, please send thoughts, feedback and opinions on past episodes, or goth in general to: cemeteryconfessions@gmail.com. I'll be putting together an episode where we read and respond to your feedback.

    Thank you for listening!

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    3 mins
  • How *NOT* to be a Goth
    Mar 2 2025

    On this episode we dive deep into the new book 'How to be a Goth'. We'll talk about the shift from subculture to mainstream adoption, argue about celebrities being 'goth-coded', debate if high fashion can be goth, and a lot more.

    Please forgive the audio issues in the first half of the episode.

    If you enjoy the show, please support us on patreon!

    Introducing the Book 00:00

    Introducing the Author 18:25

    Real Goths Sacked Rome 20:10

    Gothcore or Goth Subculture? 51:00

    Baby Bats 1:25:15

    Can High Fashion be Goth? 1:40:36

    We Finally Get Angry 1:59:50

    What is Goth PT. 1 2:24:00

    Aging in Goth 2:44:30

    What is Goth PT. 2 3:10:00

    Buy from Goths 3:26:00

    Interior Decorating 3:42:50

    Closing thoughts 3:58:00

    References:
    -Gen Z Brought Goth Back
    -Egyptian Appropriation
    -Essentialism
    -Substance and Subculture
    -Heidigger and the Revolutionary Self
    -Fecal Matter

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    4 hrs and 25 mins
  • Schwarze Szene: Central Europe's Dark Music (feat. Andre of The Wave of Things)
    Feb 2 2025

    We are taking a journey to Central Europe to speak with Andre from The Wave of Things. Throughout our tour we'll be exploring the music and scene of central and eastern Europe, discussing the variation of subcultural expression from country to country and debate whether music can be objectively goth.

    Our guest this episode is Andre of The Wave of Things and Deus Faust.

    If you enjoy the show, please support us on Patreon!

    Intro 00:00

    Getting Into Goth 2:15

    The Wave of Things 17:00

    Darker in Central Europe 26:15

    What is Goth 1:01:00

    The Wave of the Future 1:16:16

    Entangled and Embedded, Subcultural Music 1:27:00

    References:
    -Yugoslavia Post Punk
    -The Meltdown of Russia's Music Scene
    -Eurasian Coolness
    -Soviet Post-Punk
    -It's About Timber
    -Russian Post Punk
    -Zuvuki Mu
    -Comfort the Disturbed
    -Everywhere at the End of Time
    -The Best
    -Disintigration Loops

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    1 hr and 51 mins
  • Dark Entries: Goth's Hierarchy of Whiteness
    Dec 2 2024

    In this episode we are going to explore Goth's White Hegemony: Racism, Gatekeeping and Identity. We'll be looking at the ways the mechanisms of white supremacy show up in the goth scene, what we can do about it, and whether goth is a music based subculture.

    Our guest this episode is Shonalika! You can find them on YouTube, in Powderpaint and Calendrical Rot.

    If you enjoy this podcast, please support us on Patreon.

    Getting Into Goth 00:00

    Gendered Goth 8:30

    Racialized Goth 12:30

    The Audacity of Whiteness 34:45

    Conservatism and Community Praxis 52:00

    Is Goth a Music Based Subculture 1:09:30

    Book Nerds 1:53:00

    Outro 1:59:30

    References:
    -Skinheads Romantic Violence
    -How to Fight Fascism
    -Persistent Problem of Colorism
    -Vampires and Whiteness
    -Vampires of Color
    -Cultural Contradictions in Neoliberalism
    -Practice Theory
    -Skin Bleaching
    -Commitment Against Racism
    -Black Activists to Follow
    -Indigenous Activists to Follow
    -Latinx Activists to Follow
    -Asian Activists to Follow
    -Black Skin vs. Pale Aesthetic
    -I’m so Goth I Was Born Black
    -San La Muerte Fest
    -Goth So White
    -Nazi Goths Fuck Off
    -What Ends When Symbols Shatter
    -Black History and America’s Gothic Soul
    -Racial Doll Test
    -Obscura Undead: Goth is Political
    -Consumer Identity
    -Meritocracy
    -Neo-liberal Wokeism
    -Colorism in Goth
    -Extreme Politics in Underground Music
    -Recognizing Race Reductionism

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    2 hrs and 5 mins
  • Alone Together: Even Vampires can be Anxious
    Nov 2 2024

    We compare goth aesthetics and ideals of goth communities across America, discuss what makes goth music goth, and swap clubbing stories.

    Our guests are Ophelia and Viktor

    Please Support us on Patreon!

    Intro 00:00
    Getting into Goth 2:00
    Comparing Goth Clubs 10:30
    Alone Together: Goth DJs 36:00
    What is Goth Music 1:01:30
    Socializing with Goths 1:22:20
    Live Music 1:33:40
    Esotericism 1:47:40
    Cybergoth 1:54:30
    Outro 2:01:00
    Please Help 2:02:40
    Post Show Musings 2:05:13
    Coming up 2:23:00

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    2 hrs and 27 mins