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Can I Be Honest with Valentina & Lina

Can I Be Honest with Valentina & Lina

By: Valentina Weinman and Lina Forrestal
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Can I Be Honest is the podcast where curiosity takes the mic, and judgment gets the mute button. Hosted by Valentina Weinman and Lina Forrestal, two real-life mom friends who a lot of hot takes and zero interest in small talk. They dive into the taboo, the touchy, and the totally misunderstood. Through candid conversations and interviews with guests from all walks of life, they explore the stories and perspectives that challenge norms, spark empathy, and push us to think a little deeper. This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about being bold enough to ask better questions.

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Episodes
  • When Addiction Takes a Parent: Conversations About Grief, Healing, and Parenthood
    May 19 2025

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    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses addiction, death, and grief. Please take care while listening.

    In this deeply emotional episode, Lina and Valentina sit down with Amber to have a conversation that doesn’t get talked about enough: what it’s like to love someone and co-parent with someone who struggles with addiction—and what happens when they don’t survive it.

    Both guests are now parenting after the loss of an ex-partner to substance abuse. Together, they reflect on:

    • Loving someone in active addiction
    • The emotional complexity of grieving someone who caused pain but was still loved
    • How they speak to their children about their fathers
    • The stigma that follows addiction-related deaths
    • What healing has looked like for them, and where they are today

    This is a raw and honest episode that offers comfort, perspective, and solidarity for anyone who’s navigated addiction, grief, or solo parenting after loss.

    🕊️ This one is for anyone who’s lost someone to addiction and is left to pick up the pieces with love and grace.

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • The Truth About Marriage Nobody Posts About on Instagram
    May 13 2025

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    In this episode, Valentina and Lina get honest about marriage and modern relationships, and why love isn’t always pretty...or easy. They share how they met their partners, what keeps them together, and what almost drove them apart. Spoiler: it’s not always fairy tale vibes.

    There are some hot takes, including that instant gratification culture is ruining modern relationships and the myth that relationships should be “effortless”. They unpack why so many couples throw in the towel too soon and why sticking it out can actually be the most rewarding choice of all.

    If you've ever questioned your relationship, struggled in your marriage, or just want to hear two besties talk honestly about what it takes to make love last, this episode is for you.

    Disclaimer: We want to be very clear: when we talk about sticking it out in a marriage, we are not referring to situations involving domestic violence, emotional abuse, or unsafe dynamics. No one should ever feel obligated to stay in a harmful relationship. Your safety and well-being come first, always. If you are in an unsafe situation, please seek support from a trusted resource or professional.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • What You Don’t See On the News: An Israeli-American Shares Her Story
    May 5 2025

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    Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of war, violence, antisemitism, and the events of October 7th. Please listen with care.

    In this powerful episode of Can I Be Honest, we sit down with Lielle, an Israeli-American who shares her personal story of living in Israel, volunteering during the Israel-Hamas conflict, and navigating her Jewish identity in the wake of October 7th. We talk candidly about the Israel-Gaza war, the impact of antisemitism, and what it’s like to hold dual identities as both Israeli and American.

    Lielle gives us an insider’s perspective on what the mainstream media doesn’t show, the emotional toll of war, and the hope she still holds for peace. Whether you’re looking to understand more about the conflict in Israel and Gaza, want to explore Jewish faith and culture, or are curious about the lived experiences of Israeli-Americans, this honest conversation invites empathy, nuance, and deeper listening.

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    1 hr and 1 min

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