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Calmly Coping

Calmly Coping

By: Tatiana Garcia
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Calmly Coping is the go-to podcast for high-achieving professionals who look like they have it all together—but inside, they’re overthinking, self-doubting, and feeling the weight of constant pressure. I’m Tati Garcia, a licensed therapist and coach specializing in high-functioning anxiety. I help ambitious professionals break free from the cycle of overworking, overthinking, and never feeling good enough, so you can cultivate confidence, balance, and peace—without sacrificing success. If you struggle with: ✔ Overanalyzing everything and second-guessing yourself ✔ Feeling stuck in busyness but unsure how to slow down ✔ Putting immense pressure on yourself to always do more ✔ Trouble relaxing, switching off, or setting boundaries ✔ Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure Then you’re in the right place. Each bite-sized, evidence-based episode is designed to help you manage anxiety, improve focus and performance, communicate more confidently, and build the inner calm you crave. New episodes every other week. Hit follow and start breaking free from the anxiety-driven cycle today.Copyright 2020-2025 Be Calm With Tati LLC Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • How to Rest Deeply Without Losing Your Ambition with Maegan Megginson
    May 21 2025
    Can you truly rest and be successful? In this episode, I’m joined by holistic business mentor and licensed therapist Maegan Megginson to explore what it really means to be deeply rested and wildly successful. We unpack the pressure to overperform, how rest can look different for everyone, and how to shift from burnout into a life that feels more sustainable, joyful, and in tune with your true self. This conversation is grounding and deeply validating for any high achiever who’s ready to stop running on empty. In this episode, you will learn: What deep rest really is—and why it’s crucial for high-achieversEarly signs of burnout (beyond just exhaustion)How to identify what kind of rest you actually needWays to release the guilt that often comes with slowing downHow to reconnect with your intuition when anxiety takes over Connect with Maegan: Maegan’s Deeply Rested Newsletter: www.deeplyrested.com/newsletterDeeply Rested Podcast: https://maeganmegginson.com/deeply-rested-podcast/ Sandra Dalton-Smith’s rest framework: https://www.drdaltonsmith.com/ Previous Calmly Coping episodes on trauma responses: Escape Survival Mode and Heal Your Nervous System: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/heal-nervous-system/ | YouTube: https://youtu.be/YDtmmN942FgThe Relationship Between Trauma and High-Functioning Anxiety: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/trauma-and-high-functioning-anxiety/ | YouTube: https://youtu.be/Gu1y08t2lTYHow Trauma Affects Anxiety with The Anxious Therapist: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/how-trauma-affects-anxiety/ | YouTube: https://youtu.be/LmXL4z1dY0I ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ——————— 💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter 💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message ——————— Want more? 👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me 👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping 📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com ——————— My favorite tools: 🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd ✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081 ——————— Say hi on social: 🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ 📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc ——————— Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
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    54 mins
  • The To-Do List Trap: Why You Can’t Relax
    May 7 2025

    Have you ever told yourself, “Once I finish everything on my list, then I’ll relax”... only to find that the list never actually ends? It’s like you’re chasing the finish line, but it keeps moving further away. And when you do finally pause, instead of feeling peace, you feel guilt—like you haven’t earned your rest yet. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m going to help you break that cycle so you can stop waiting for permission to rest and finally start honoring your needs—without the guilt.

    In this episode, you will learn:

    • Why you constantly feel the need to finish everything before you can rest—and why that’s not serving you.
    • How to identify the emotional patterns and beliefs that keep self-care at the bottom of your list.
    • A simple, therapist-informed 4-step method to help you shift from productivity guilt to intentional rest and balance.

    Mentioned in episode:

    How to Set Boundaries with Work: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/work-boundaries/

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    Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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    🎓 Free 3-day Course: How To Calm Your Mind So You Can Finally Relax: https://calmlycoping.com/relax

    💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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    Want more?

    👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

    👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

    📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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    My favorite tools:

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

    ✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

    🕊️ Moonbird (Handheld Breathing Coach)*: https://calmlycoping.com/moonbird

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    Say hi on social:

    🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

    📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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    Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

    Disclaimer

    All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

    *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

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    15 mins
  • How to Overcome Insomnia with Joseph Pannell
    Apr 23 2025

    If your mind races the moment your head hits the pillow — you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m joined by sleep expert Joseph Pannell, who shares his personal journey through 20 years of chronic insomnia and the powerful, science-backed strategies that helped him heal. We explore the deep connection between high-functioning anxiety, perfectionism, and insomnia, and what actually helps when you’re stuck in the spiral of overthinking at night. This conversation is validating, eye-opening, and full of relief for anyone who feels like rest is out of reach.

    • The truth about what insomnia is (and isn’t)
    • Why high achievers are more prone to sleep issues
    • How to stop spiraling at night and calm your mind
    • Practical behavioral shifts that support natural sleep
    • What to do when anxious thoughts wake you up at 3 AM

    Joseph’s Website: https://www.sleepze.com

    Joseph’s YouTube Channel: Insomnia Talks

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    Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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    ▶️ Check out Joseph’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@InsomniaTalks

    💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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    Want more?

    👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

    👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

    📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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    My favorite tools:

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

    ✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

    🕊️ Moonbird (Handheld Breathing Coach)*: https://calmlycoping.com/moonbird

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    Say hi on social:

    🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

    📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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    Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

    Disclaimer

    All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

    *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

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    1 hr and 6 mins

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