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Calm the Chaos: A Mindful Moment to Regulate and Respond

Calm the Chaos: A Mindful Moment to Regulate and Respond

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 Welcome back, friend. I'm Julia Cartwright, and I'm so glad you're here on this Saturday morning. If you're like me, you might be facing that peculiar Saturday chaos where everyone's home, energy levels are bouncing off the walls, and you're wondering if it's too early for coffee. Or maybe it's the quiet before the storm, and you're trying to hold onto peace. Either way, you've carved out these few minutes for yourself and your family, and that matters more than you know.

Let's begin by just arriving here, together. Wherever you are right now—whether you're sitting, standing in the kitchen, or stealing a moment in the car—just notice what you're touching. Feel the ground beneath you or the seat supporting you. There's something grounding about that physical reminder that you're held, even when parenting feels like you're juggling in a hurricane.

Now, let's breathe together. Take a slow breath in through your nose for a count of four. Hold it for a moment. And release through your mouth like you're gently blowing out birthday candles. Do that again. In for four. Hold. Out slowly. You're already shifting your nervous system just by doing this. Your kids are sensing this shift too, even if they don't know why.

Here's what I want you to try today, and it's something I call the Pause and Name practice. You know those moments when your kid melts down over the wrong cereal, and you feel that familiar heat rising in your chest? That's your cue. Pause. Don't react yet. Just notice what you're feeling without judgment. Are you frustrated? Tired? Maybe underneath it, you're worried they're going to have a bad day. Name it silently. "I'm feeling frustrated right now." That's it. The magic isn't in fixing anything immediately. It's in creating space between what's happening and how you respond. When you do that, your child learns they can do the same thing.

This practice teaches your kids that feelings are weather patterns, not emergencies. They come, they move through, and they go. And you're the calm anchor in that storm.

So today, pick one moment when things start to escalate. Maybe it's bedtime or the breakfast table. Just pause, breathe the way we did together, and name what you're feeling. Notice how differently your child responds when you're regulated instead of reactive.

Thank you so much for joining me on Mindful Parenting: Daily Tips for Raising Calm Kids. If this resonated with you, please subscribe wherever you're listening. You're building something beautiful here—a calmer home, one mindful moment at a time.

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