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By the Bi

By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes
  • 444 - Annual Check-In
    Feb 4 2026

    In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together.


    We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy, boundaries, and how desire changes over time. There’s tenderness, there’s friction, and there’s that charged in-between space where real connection lives.


    This episode isn’t advice or a relationship blueprint. It’s a candid look at what it takes to keep choosing each other (especially in non-monogamous, bisexual, and sex-positive relationships) when growth, pleasure, and practicality all collide.


    Listen with curiosity. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.


    Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!

    Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here


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    2 hrs and 4 mins
  • 443 - Jingle Balls
    Dec 24 2025

    NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!)


    You ask for it… again and again.


    This week on By the Bi, things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare.

    Angela brings the precision, Bradford brings the chaos, and The Gentleman? Well… let’s just say he takes it like a champ. If you thought the last session was slick, wait until you hear what happens when the temperature rises again.

    Get ready for the return of the drip, the tug, and the irresistible urge to shout “just one more strip!” You know you’re curious. Go on… hit play.


    Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!

    Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here


    Find us on social media!!!

    On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast

    On Facebook BytheBiPodcast

    On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast

    Or email us here


    Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!


    Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 442 - New Kink Unlocked
    Dec 10 2025

    This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming—and now he can’t stop thinking about it.


    Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels to lean into the unknown, and why staying curious is one of the sexiest things you can do.


    Tune in for a spicy, surprising episode that proves the right hookup can do more than just hit the spot—it can change the game.


    Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!

    Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here


    Find us on social media!!!

    On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast

    On Facebook BytheBiPodcast

    On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast

    Or email us here


    Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!


    Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    57 mins
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