Episodes

  • Sparkles, Lap Dances, & Queer Subtext-S2E11- Showgirls

    Sparkles, Lap Dances, & Queer Subtext-S2E11- Showgirls
    Feb 17 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re strutting into the glitter-drenched chaos of Showgirls.
    We’re talking the rise of Nomi Malone, the rhinestones, the drama, the NC-17 rating, and how this infamous flop became a queer cult classic. Is it bad? Is it good? Is it so bad that’s it’s good? We will unpack it all, and hone in on all the gayest parts.


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will discuss Addicted to Fresno, available on Tello!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • Daddy Issues & Sad Gay Girl Vibes- S2E10- Carmen & Lola

    Daddy Issues & Sad Gay Girl Vibes- S2E10- Carmen & Lola
    Feb 10 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking Carmen y Lola, a tender yet rebellious lesbian love story you definitely need to see. We get into young love, breaking generational rules, and what it means to choose yourself when your entire community says you can’t. There’s yearning, there’s street art, and there’s a healthy dose of religious trauma.
    We chat about cultural context, the weight of tradition, and why this film is quietly radical without trying to be flashy. In addition, you are in for our very gay opinions, and a Cookie Jar Qs segment!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are going back to the early aughts with Saving Face (2004). This film is available for rent on Roku TV, Apple TV, and YouTube.

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • A Beautiful & Tragic Lesbian Icon- S2E9- Gia

    A Beautiful & Tragic Lesbian Icon- S2E9- Gia
    Feb 3 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re diving into Gia (1998): the lesbian biopic about the tragic life of an 80s supermodel. We talk Gia Carangi, queer desire, fame, addiction, and the AIDS crisis.
    We break down our key takeaways from the film (yes, we’re crying), gush over our favorite supermodels past and present, and bring back everyone’s favorite segment: “What’s Up With the Heteros?” because it’s always fun to read about straight people’s relationship issues.
    It’s sexy, devastating, iconic, and extremely gay. Come cry, laugh, and discuss how incredibly gorgeous Angelina Jolie is with us.

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week, when we recap Carmen Y Lola (2018), a Spanish film available on Tubi and Plex!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • A Lesbian Bee Charmer & Implied Cannibalism- S2E8- Fried Green Tomatoes

    A Lesbian Bee Charmer & Implied Cannibalism- S2E8- Fried Green Tomatoes
    Jan 27 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Grab a plate at the Whistle Stop Café because we’re diving into Fried Green Tomatoes. Murder rumors, lifelong “friendships,” and enough lesbian subtext to power a small town. It’s tender, it’s tragic, and absolutely a WLW love story! Bring tissues. And maybe snacks.
    Additionally, we are talking about our favorite foods (spoiler: we have lots) and spilling some lesbian historical tea in a WLW History segment!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week, we will be talking about the tragic 1998 Angelina Jolie film, Gia! This movie is available to stream on HBO Max!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Leading With Curiosity & Lesbianism- S2E7- I Can’t Think Straight

    Leading With Curiosity & Lesbianism- S2E7- I Can’t Think Straight
    Jan 20 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking about I Can’t Think Straight (2008), a peak early 2000s-era lesbian romance full of longing stares, rich people, poetry, and extremely intense eye contact. We are dishing on forbidden love, cultural expectations, undeniable chemistry, and more. Messy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes. A true sapphic rite of passage. We are also talking about who we would cast in a movie about our lives, what we are currently obsessing over, and y2k diet culture.

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are discussing a favorite canonically not exactly WLW film, Fried Green Tomatoes!! This movie is available on Philo or for rent on Apple TV or YouTube!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


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    57 mins
  • Secret Hookups & Awkward Adult Film Rentals- S2E6-Imagine Me & You

    Secret Hookups & Awkward Adult Film Rentals- S2E6-Imagine Me & You
    Jan 13 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re talking about the 2005 rom-com Imagine Me & You. From the flower shop/straight wedding “meet-cute” to the slow realization that something feels different, this movie has become a longtime favorite for a lot of queer viewers. We chat about the awkward moments, the quiet tension, and the choices the characters have to make when love shows up in unexpected ways.
    We get into what still works, what feels a little dated, and why this story keeps finding new fans years later. Whether it’s your first time watching or a comfort rewatch, Imagine Me & You is one of those films that keeps inviting conversation, and we’re happy to have it.
    We also dive into our own thoughts on love at first sight, and answer some “Dear Dykes” submissions!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are still in our early 2000s WLW era! We will be recapping I Can't Think Straight! This movie is available on Tubi!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Scissoring, Stretching, & Seeing Red-S2E5-Love Lies Bleeding

    Scissoring, Stretching, & Seeing Red-S2E5-Love Lies Bleeding
    Jan 6 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Love Lies Bleeding is not your average sapphic romance, and honestly? Thank goodness! This week, we’re breaking down the murder, the muscles, and the bad decisions that make this film such a wild (yet fun) ride!
    We get into the twisted love story at the center, the extremely hot actors, and the way desire spirals into something dangerous. It’s gritty, intense, and unapologetically gay- and we’re unpacking what works, what shocks us, and what lingers long after the credits roll (hint: it’s a sex scene that we can’t stop thinking about).
    Join us for a chaotic, spoiler-filled conversation about love, power, and just how far you’d go for your lady love!
    Make sure to stay for the full episode, because we go through a history of scissoring/tribbing to clear up all the misconceptions we have heard!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week’s episode, as we recap the highly requested 2005 sapphic rom com, Imagine Me & You! This movie is available on Amazon prime!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    This episode includes AI-generated content.
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • A Nashville Lesbian New Year’s Eve- S2E4- I Hate New Year's

    A Nashville Lesbian New Year’s Eve- S2E4- I Hate New Year's
    Dec 30 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Pop the champagne (or apple cider) because this week we’re talking Tello’s I Hate New Year’s, the sapphic rom-com for anyone who’s ever side-eyed a countdown clock.
    In this episode, we talk about why New Year’s is actually so fun, even if it can be a little cheesy. This movie is a little silly, a little predictable, and a lot sweet.
    Hit play if you love queer rom-coms, emotional chaos, and lots of lesbian country music drama!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Hit the gym with us next week for Love Lies Bleeding, available on HBO Max!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    59 mins